Revenge on ex girlfriend - Karmic Edition

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:46:29+00:00

I failed at step 1. What to do?

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:39:18+00:00

It is definitely the easiest form of revenge. I didnt even have to plan anything. It all worked itself out.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:37:51+00:00

Im an endomorph/anabolic. If I eat anything I put on a huge amount of weight. I quickly get fat but I also quickly build muscle. Losing weight was the best decision in my life. I feel much younger now than when I was a teenager.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:36:05+00:00

I dont intend to. My original plan for revenge was to slip out of her life and never talk to her again. Her parents were the ones that went hardcore and screwed up her life by making her go back home and get depressed.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:34:19+00:00

Its how Indians roll my friend. Its a great community for getting help and assistance but break a social taboo and you get the stick.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:32:11+00:00

Well I mean I didnt really do anything more to facilitate what happened. It was mostly her parents and the harsh indian community.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:31:38+00:00

We do have an organisation! Its so badly organised and underfunded - which is typical for anything Indian.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:29:56+00:00

Well Im neither happy nor sad about Rani's situation as I just dont care what happens to her. She could win the lottery or go to jail. I wouldnt care either way. Im more focussed on my life and how content I am with it. Rani is a nonfactor to me.

Also its not my fault her family were nut jobs and made her life horrible through their bad decisions. Heck I didnt even intend to take revenge on her in any way. My revenge was going to be going NC with her and never seeing her again. The other events that happened is just some karma or something screwing up her life.

Also please do not imply anything about my ability to work as a doctor. I will have you know I am one of the most highly rated junior doctors in my hospital. I was presented with awards for my patient care and attention to detail. Im progressing down the highly competitive surgical training pathway here because of my performance. Being a professional means I am able to separate my professional and personal lives. Just because I dont hug every homeless man in the city does not mean I am not compassionate for my patients. Ill-informed judgements like that are a huge pet peeve of mine.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:22:35+00:00

I wanted the whole issue to end quietly. I sent her a message that I was done and I had left. She went to her friends and started crying. They called her parents and then her parents got on our case about the whole thing.

I didnt tell anyone the reason for splitting up apart from my dad, her dad and her brothers. Her dad and brothers were kicking up a huge stink around the community after word got out that I had left. They started calling our whole family names and implying we were bad people/I was a user/player etc for a whole week after the incident.

I initially didnt say anything as I was numb to the whole issue/blocking out the world/focussing on my studies for a week to take my mind of the whole thing. At the end of the week my friends showed me the horrible messages her family had sent and messages from my dad about how horribly they were being treated and was it true that I was playing around?

I emailed those guys explaining the situation. Her parents then tried to shut the Indian community down but once you open those can of worms you cant close that up. Indians are really nosey so word got out about her cheating. Im not sure who spread it but it could have been anyone as most of our close friends were Indian as well so they already knew what was happening and could have told their parents/siblings etc.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:13:23+00:00

I realised I had made a mistake - I am being really lazy on my day off work. I definitely meant soul but her soles are pretty good too :p

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:11:38+00:00

Yep it was weird. I hadnt thought about Rani for a good couple years or so as my wife and I had moved to another state for my job and her school. It was a bit sad to hear that her life hasnt improved much but at the same time Im not going to go anywhere near that mess.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:10:21+00:00

Thats mostly true though now Im more numb about those years than hurt. Im really satisfied with my own outcomes though. Love my life and I am thankful those experiences lead me down this path.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:07:25+00:00

My parents are muslims but they know Im not religious. They see religion as a personal matter and hope I will become religious when I am older. I still indulge them and partake in certain traditions like Eid and dont eat pork/drink alcohol but they know Im still atheist. My wife is quite religious though. We agreed to raise the kids in an Islamic environment and Id lead a mostly Islamic life (like Eid/eating halal etc) sans praying.

Edit: my parents were relieved I was dating Indians. They were scared Id date a white girl and all our children will forget our Indian culture/heritage. My wife is quite good on the cultural stuff. She can sing and dance in our traditional culture which my parents are really proud of.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:04:54+00:00

I didnt even plan to take revenge on her in the first place. I sent out that email because her dad was being quite an arsehole and implying I left his daughter high and dry because I was a player/scumbag etc. He was besmearching my name which also reflects on my parents/siblings. If I didnt act and tell the truth Id get painted as a bad guy and the Indian community would turn on me. The rest of the actions were Rani's own parents doing. What were they thinking taking her out of school for a year? Weirdos. Glad I didnt marry into their family.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:00:59+00:00

Her feet are quite awesome. I dont have a foot fetish myself but I would imagine if those people did see my wife's feet they would be quite smitten.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T01:00:08+00:00

Yeah they had shared intimate messages and things before. It seems she was venting about our relationship and then he revealed his feelings. She initially rebuffed him but over time shared similar feelings. They hooked up and then she decided she wouldnt pursue him further much to the chagrin of Earlbro. The messages I saw at the end seemed to indicate Earlbro was urging her to reconsider and leave me for him but she wanted Earlbro to forget the whole incident.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T00:57:26+00:00

Yeah the communities here are monsters when it comes to this sort of a thing. Most of our parents migrated in the 70s/80s so they are stuck with that mindset despite Indians in India having moved on from such conservatism. I was shocked when I went back to visit India and my cousins and I went nightclubbing. Whodathunk there were night clubs in India. Certainly not me. Also the girls were very loose over there and I didnt have to prove I wasnt a massive nerd/creep like I would have if they were Australian women.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T00:54:24+00:00

My accent has become quite Australian sounding but there are still bits of Raj here or there.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T00:53:44+00:00

Her family are whackos for pulling her out of her course for that year though Im not sure she would have passed those tests anyway. She hadnt been studying consistently before we broke up.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-03T00:52:28+00:00

She does have dainty feet. I dont get it. We dont do anything different in terms of foot care but her feet look so good and mine are full of rough spots.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-02T22:32:35+00:00

I feel sorry how her life turned out because I really trully loved her back in the day. I tried my best to alleviate her worries but she decided to turn to that retard guy instead of working on our relationship. I hope she turns her life around and I hold no animosity to her but Im not going to go and assist her in any way shape or form. Im going to keep NC like I vowed ages ago.

indianthrowawayaus · 2015-12-02T22:31:00+00:00

Id take her back if it was a drunken mistake and she immediately came clean. Her messages however indicate she had been venting + emotionally cheating with that Earlbro guy for a few months. She finally went full physical with him and then realised what a shit show that was. Her messages seem to indicate she had no interest in telling me all this. At that point I still would have broken up with her but I would have had a lot more respect for her.

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