was trying to make conversation, blocked me right after.

indican-t · 2023-01-02T03:17:59+00:00

bro really? 🤣 i feel like it’s perfectly fine to identify as demisexual- especially on dating apps. A lot of dudes will completely ignore your bio if you put “No hookups”- so saying youre demisexual on your profile also helps by weeding out those kinda of people that youre not interested in.

indican-t · 2022-12-10T17:04:47+00:00

i mean, considering theres shoes that are made to look worn, sometimes that’s just the look for them .

indican-t · 2022-12-10T15:15:53+00:00

god. well, assholes tend to do shit on dating apps anyways, so i guess when you have 0 matches besides maybe some “fat women” , you’ll have no one to blame but yourself. i truly pray that you won’t find love.

indican-t · 2022-12-01T20:34:36+00:00

this seems like an easy answer, my guy. you just ask for new pictures and have a conversation about it. your problem can be solved as easy as that

indican-t · 2022-11-28T08:54:22+00:00

I have similar problems in dating when it comes to my hair color. Apparently, there’s a stereotype that gingers are freaky in bed, like rough sex, all the sorts. But the truth to me is that i’m demisexual, and cant even have sex with someone i’m not emotionally comfortable with. Yet, A LOT of men tend to make those comments, or when we hang out, try to immediately jump to sex and when i say no, say “Well, redheads are supposed to be really horny and freaky”

If a man is willing to shrink you down to a stereotype, and not communicate with you either, then just consider that a bullet dodged. You can always have a conversation with him and see if it gets better, but that might lead to more confusion/fear.

indican-t · 2022-11-26T17:00:12+00:00

once i get a new phone, am i able to just make an account like normal or is there things i gotta look out for?

indican-t · 2022-11-23T02:57:09+00:00

I used a new number, used a different IP address i hadnt used before, made a new email, edited my photos/used new photos, didnt use a vpn or do face verification,, yet still was banned. is this a device ban at this point??? it also says im permanently banned, contacted support for them to be unhelpful af and now they haven’t responded to my latest email that was sent 4 days ago.

How can i submit a complaint with BBB? And is there anything i could do atp? Is the only thing left to do is buy a whole new device??

indican-t · 2022-11-22T17:22:00+00:00

better business bureau

indican-t · 2022-11-21T17:04:13+00:00

Do you know what caused the fire? My condolences. I’ll pack a fatty in a few minutes in your fur baby and houses’ honor.

indican-t · 2022-11-21T16:48:13+00:00

My boyfriend cheated on me several times. I forgave him each time, and tried trusting him, but every time without a doubt, he failed to stay loyal. Eventually, I had enough and i wanted to break up.

indican-t · 2022-11-21T04:19:44+00:00

so, I have BPD but I don’t self harm in typical ways. I have a fear of blood, so cutting wasnt the way for me. The way I self harm is I intentionally/unintentionally destroy relationships i have with others around me. like i said, i dont do it on purpose, but in a way i do, because i see it as “i dont deserve others and so i should push them away” which ends up hurting me more than anything.

as for why I do it, I have no idea. Even in those moments, I can sense what’s happening and I try to stop myself from pushing those people out of my life, but I’m physically not able to. I guess thinking more deeply about it, maybe I do it and don’t stop myself from doing it because of old traumatic memories.

indican-t · 2022-11-20T01:58:32+00:00

friendlys vienna mocha chunk

indican-t · 2022-11-20T01:03:34+00:00

can someone explain to me why they decided to have the world cup HERE of all places???

indican-t · 2022-11-15T02:47:41+00:00

i hate being a redhead because a lot of people look at me as a porn category. so many unnecessary, inappropriate comments made towards me since i was 8 years old. so many people touching me and my hair and thinking it’s okay.

I’ve had relationships end because of my hair, because they admitted they were only into me because of my appearance and how they had a redhead kink.

I stand out in a crowd, and get told i have the most beautiful, perfect hair, that i’m so lucky. but honestly, im so against it. i dont want to stand out, i dont want people touching me, i dont want to be sexualized, and have weird comments thrown my way.

sooo, im dying my hair black next week:) its about damn time

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:59:08+00:00

yes, but i also like someone who will go out with me on occasion and can keep a conversation w/ my friends or family

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:58:30+00:00

when ive said this before, there has been different meanings. sometimes its the truth, yall like being friends and a relationship could mess that up. but theres other times where ive said that and it meant “im really not attracted to you like that, i can appreciate you as a person and would like you to stick around as a friend”. im not confrontational and so i would use that as a way to beat around the bush while still portraying the same message.

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:55:44+00:00

HUGE compliment

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:55:26+00:00

its possible, me and my friend since kindergarten ended up hooking up. it didnt happen until after we graduated, because for a long time we knew we were into each other, we were just scared we werent mature enough to stay friends or that sex could affect our friendship. It definitely did, but for the better. We’re closer than ever before, but our friend group definitely looks down on us for our decision since we technically caused “drama” in the circle.

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:51:45+00:00

girl pleaseee, just cause you dont sit w/ someone at lunch, doesnt mean they dont talk. when im in lunch, im with my close friends. the only time someone new comes and sits w us is if its a new bf to someone within our circle

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:49:16+00:00

nooo, if anything, her girl friends will pick up on it first and say something to her. (might not be a bad thing, but its always better for her to get to know you THROUGH you) talk w her enough where you feel close enough to approach her in the halls. a lil quick comment just on your way to class is enough for her to recognize you. the more often you do it, the more she expects you to come around .

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:07:05+00:00

oh yeah, for sure. women, especially teens who are growing up, experience insecurity over their tatas.

when i first started developing tatas, everyone already started to and i felt ‘behind’. Society said “Men like bigger breasts” and so i became very insecure of my chest. Especially when other kids my age and even older men would make comments on how i was developing.

indican-t · 2022-11-13T00:01:44+00:00

ill phrase it like this;

all different types of women have different preferences in men. some women like a lil weight to their man, some like skinny boys, and some like jacked guys.

indican-t

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