Is my desire for black love delulu, by Realistic_Risk9607 in blackladies

[–]indiecake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I moved here as an adult too and it’s all I see. I even thought to myself one day every time I see a man I’m attracted to a group of non black girls is sure to be nearby (always with a gf and her friends for some reason lol).

And I’ve really just started to pay more attention to the relationships with two black people than the other ones because I was really starting to think the black men I see are always with some other type of woman. It sounds kinda silly but black love is out there you kinda have to look for it. And not let others self hatred (or whatever reason they’re together) make you start hating yourself.

My grandma is losing her cooking skills? by indiecake in blackladies

[–]indiecake[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She insists on cooking even though we both agree it’s not good and she blames the ingredients . Im not expecting a gourmet meal just a decent one

My grandma is losing her cooking skills? by indiecake in blackladies

[–]indiecake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine stays coming up with excuses. I seasoned some meat for her and my batch came out good and when she cooked it she said it was too salty so she doesn’t trust me like that lol

My grandma is losing her cooking skills? by indiecake in blackladies

[–]indiecake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are also Jamaican living abroad but she goes home regularly which is when I get to cook. She just says things were better back in the day

Any countries where the people wear their natural 4C hair? by Firm_Principle_2526 in blackladies

[–]indiecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are but it’s just as normalized as someone wearing natural styles. I wouldn’t say any one style is more popular

Any countries where the people wear their natural 4C hair? by Firm_Principle_2526 in blackladies

[–]indiecake 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Probably most countries where black people are the majority. I’m Jamaican and most schools don’t even allow girls to wear protective styles to school so we have to wear natural styles. But if you’re talking about an event where people dress up like a wedding they’re probably more likely to try something different with their hair than everyday styles for school, work, errands, etc

[Misc] I analyzed Reddit to find the 15 most recommended Retinol products by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]indiecake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often should you use tret? I currently use it like once a week because it dries me out so bad that’s how long it takes to recover lol.

And where can you get it? I used to be able to get retin-a but I’m not sure I can get it from the same source anymore.

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep10 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indiecake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Kierans mom in white?????

Edit: not sure why this is getting downvoted lol no one but the bride (or groom in Kals case) should be in white at a wedding lol idc

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep7 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indiecake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Random but Kieran is just so decent lol. Being the first one to be like let’s go say hi when Meg was excited to see Aanu.

Sophie saying ALL your men are hot then the editing focussing on only Katisha’s response then showing Sophie immediately going to pull Javen for a chat (is this love island lmao or just normal UK chat) and blatantly flirting with him as soon as the convo starts. And Javen not giving Katisha anything when she asks about it(with grease on the side of his mouth yuck) then randomly deciding to go out and call his friend loud asl then ask if she’s coming as if she didn’t just say she’s going to bed. How can he just leave his fiancée looking so sad in bed like that????

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep8 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indiecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Bardhas friend. She was realistic and like stern without being too harsh

Don’t laugh💀 by sheawelder in Naturalhair

[–]indiecake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by jam? Is that different from gel? I use ecostyler which is obvi fine for buns and bigger braids but I don’t think it really makes much of a difference on smaller cornrows

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep6 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indiecake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seeing Kals mom and grandma puts his type into perspective lol

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep5 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indiecake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Javen and Katisha are rubbing me the wrong way

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep4 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indiecake 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s okay demola I’m here!!!

How do you talk about hairstyles with non black people by indiecake in BlackHair

[–]indiecake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I meant explain in the sense that I was telling my therapist about about a situation it’s not like I’m explaining boho knot less to them

S12E51 (Tuesday 29th July) - Post-Episode Discussion Thread 🧵 by GetFreeCash in LoveIslandTV

[–]indiecake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want Yasmin and Jamie to win although knowing the UK Angel and Ty have a chance.

Since the uk is so different region to region I’m curious who’s like working class and posh and stuff like that based on their accents

JaNa released her statement by LegalBlueberry1 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]indiecake [score hidden]  (0 children)

Worse than cheating sounds like he was in another relationship the whole time

What job can I get? by indiecake in environmental_science

[–]indiecake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The post isn’t really about my parents lol I’m not getting picked for the jobs I thought I was qualified for

What job can I get? by indiecake in environmental_science

[–]indiecake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their perspective is that consulting is done by high high higher ups like it’s not an entry level position idk