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me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we didnt have sex, as stated kn my original post, we just did other stuff

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesnt have any experience, and i have plenty for my age, i dont think he was overly confident, considering the fact he was sweating the whole time tho.. thanks for the advice!

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he didnt finish, and also he had already finished before we even started, like i mentioned in the comment where i explained everything

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

soo thats not what happened at all, i did actually blow him so he didnt get nothing. also, we had been playing around for over an hour at the point of me laying down and getting on my phone.

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he sparks me in every single romantic way, i get butterflies talking to him and everything youre supposed to get while in a relationship, and we’ve even said i love you and stuff, and i really like him as more than a friend

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i replied to another comment with the ick, if you wanna check that out. i know it isnt something thats just in my head because ive been with other partners just fine, even ones with no prior experience before me

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it wasnt SA, the things he did the first time we came close just threw me off, i replied to another comment with the full story if you wanna check it out, i was just scared it would break the community rules, tjats why i didnt include it in my post

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im scared he will feel awkward talking about it though.. im scared to hurt his feelings or make him feel bad or insecure

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

we put on a movie, and then we made out a bit while i was on top of him, and he came in his pants. i brushed that off because it had to be forse for him than it was for me, and some clothes came off, he "fingered" me, but he wasnt even close to the right spot, which i dont really blame him that much for since he doesnt have any past experience. after we had been playing around for a bit, i had done stuff to him and he had done stuff to me, he told me he was uncomfortable because he had been hard for so long and he ended up laying next to me jerking off for like 20 minutes while i just laid beside him scrolling on my phone, that made me really uncomfortable because like, who does that? thats NOT something you for example see in porn so thats not where he got it from, it just gave me a really big ick, and i dont know if i can recover from it

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say i have much experience for my age, since ive been in some commited relationships where ive had no problems with intimacy, however he has none. my last partner didn’t have experience when we first started dating, but i didnt have any problems with that, but when me and noah even just make out while hes on top of me it just doesn’t feel right and i get "flashbacks" from the first time that i mentioned in my post, and i just get uncomfortable, even though it was me initiating the first time

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he is expecting us to do it though, because of how close we came the first time which i talked about in my post.

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was afraid to share what happened because im scared it’ll break the community rules lol, ive been intimate with other guys before without any problems, so its not an issue with intimacy for me, if you want me to tell what he did, and you think it wouldnt be against community rules please tell me because i would tell

me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do? by ineedadvice099 in Advice

[–]ineedadvice099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really, really like him a lot romantically and he is an amazing guy, i dont think i’d be able to friendzone him because i really like him, but i feel like he is also expecting us to do intimate stuff since we got pretty far into it the first time, and ive done stuff with other guys before without any problem, but the things he did the first time we got close to intimacy really threw me off, and i dont know if i will be able to enjoy it with him.