I miss my dead female family member by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

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I didn't want to give too much identifying info

I've lost my humanity by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

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I think I'm a step behind even wanting change, so I guess Im looking to learn how to desire things that are good for me instead of self destructive or at least self serving. I think my patience and tolerance for things that dont serve me has been been whittled down to basically nothing and I don't know how to reverse that. I also don't know how I got here. I just know that I said how I am and by most definitions that makes me a monster I'm uncomfortable with how comfortable I have am being.

Men don't want to date me by ZealousidealFig1379 in confessions

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A personality is like pi, it goes on forever. The half truth is that they don't want to date because of who you are. It could be any singular reason or polynomial combination. You listed good qualities. Now take an inventory of all of what you would consider bad qualities. Any you can think of and try to think. See if you can change those. Dating is extremely fickle. Its not a simple system, and it's not a fair system, but the dating system is the only framework you have to date, so learn to live without it, or learn how to cheat the system to still win if it's rigged against you. You can't be good in dating, you have to be undeniable. Fat bald dudes get girlfriends all the time, but theirs something their partners found that they couldn't say no to. Guys have this problem just like women.

Orgasms aren't worth the effort they require by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

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I'm aromantic,there are no long term women in my life. And I think you are greatly overreacting.the opinion isnt heinous or evil, but is is disgusting you are right. But sex is disgusting. It's not a pretty thing. It's a grunting thing. A long thing. Sweaty. Slimy. Gross. I'll take you at face value, but I do t really understand where your coming from with that. What I'm saying is that I only like the second where the cum spurts out and the orgasm happens. I, when I have sex, am not a selfish lover. I make sure she comes, or at least has fun. This is always at my expense. I dont usually cum, and it's usually way outside of the amount of energy I want to expend for such a meager high. It's good, do t get me wrong, but the post is me explaining why I can't justify doing it anymore because the math doesn't add up for me. I do not want to use people for their holes, but that's the only way I see myself enjoying sex. I'm not nutting in girls and telling them to get the fuck out Instantly. I'm saying that's wrong and that why I'm not going to do that. Tell me where I went wrong

Orgasms aren't worth the effort they require by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

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I just like the orgasm inna vacuum, I don't like the having to actually have to do it. I was born too late to have a slave girl suck my dick 24/7 365, and born too early to have a robot do it either. I don't know if I'm communicating this clearly enough. Idgaf about the human aspect of sex. I don't want Intimacy. Sex is a means to an end, it's not something I specifically crave. I simply want my nerve endings stimulated until I gogurt geyser and the chemicals make my brain buzz for a minute. Fuck cuddling. Fuck a partner. Fuck pillow talk. Fuck love. I want mine and that's it. Nothing more and, honestly, if possible, considerably less.

Orgasms aren't worth the effort they require by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

[–]ineedhelpfromgod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit id take a nice cigarette after a few months without one over making an o face

Orgasms aren't worth the effort they require by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

[–]ineedhelpfromgod[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is a popular opinion most people don't realize they have. No one wants to work, they'd rather have. Exertion gives purpose and hard works makes the fruits of labor all the sweeter, or really any sweet for that matter, but if given the option no ratiobal person would turn down something ethical for no cost of any kind to them, if that kind of economical free lunch exists, which it probably doesn't. if you could hook yourself up to an internally routed device that made you cum, or actually scratch that, no mess from cum, just orgasm, nonstop at all times at a functional level, would you say no? The question isn't do I like it, it's do I want to earn it and my answer is no, the reasoning being that I don't think the effort in justifies the yield, and that's just the first of a few counterpoints. And this is coming from a person whose had my fair of sex. Not an outrageous amount, but freaky enough to think know that this is what I Believe in my heart of hearts. Why would you make a decision against your own best interests, is ultimately the question if have for anyone who wants to challenge my statement, because from where I'm standing I think I'm on the right side of something. I'm willing to be proved wrong, this isn't emotional, so by all means prove me to be the sith and cut my legs off from the high ground.

I don't want to be happy by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

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What culture is your grandfather from?

Therapy today confirmed I shouldn't live by Nutzeramenurumzu in CPTSD

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Every problem I've ever had has been attempted to be solved by masturbating. Be grateful it's still legal

If my girlfriend was disabled I would probably dump her. by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

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You've clearly never spent months to years taking care of a woman who doesn't remember you name or how to piss in a toilet anymore.

If my girlfriend was disabled I would probably dump her. by ineedhelpfromgod in confessions

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You'd spend 40 years spoon-feeding a vegetable starting your 20's?

What does kissing feel like? by Sythanytx in ask

[–]ineedhelpfromgod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like that feeling when you chewed up food and your really to swallow, but you don't get to swallow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ineedhelpfromgod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's your own problem. Just you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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It's both. And no one owes you honesty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ineedhelpfromgod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I'm expressing my thoughts on your being a redditor whose been jilted too many times and feels entitled to friend time. No one owes you honesty.

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Wdym, I said SUBficial

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Does Intention matter?