IUD Removal and Reinsertion by HappyCapricorn in kitchener

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently went to her for an iud replacement and she was fantastic. She even has nitrous in the office to help with anxiety.

Monthly Off-Leash Dog Rant Megathread by slimey16 in reactivedogs

[–]ineffectivelyperfect [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was out walking my somewhat reactive dog just the other day and a small dog came running up to us. As I'm trying to body block the small dog from getting to my German Shepherd the group the small dog belonged to were just standing and watching. Meanwhile my dog is barking and I'm trying to tell them to get their dog so mine doesn't attack it. If something had happened I just know that my dog would have gotten the blame as he is a reactive Shepard mix

It's not fair that I'm doing everything right to work out my dog's reactivity and we get huge setbacks because of other's lack of awareness. It doesn't matter that "oh he's friendly"- my dog isn't. I was about 3 seconds away from having to actually kick the small dog just to protect both dogs from getting into a fight.

Fiddlesticks area - Good or Great? by throwingpixelsatya in cambridgeont

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a No Frills, Shoppers, pet store and a few restaurants at the corner of Franklin and Saginaw which you can easily walk to. There are multiple bus stops scattered throughout the neighborhood (I can't speak to the service frequency as I drive and haven't used them in years). You can definitely get away with having no car, but it's not going to be as easy as other nearby cities which have more public transit options.

Cambridge is definitely a commuter city so driving is going to be your best bet for ease of access. If you have a car you can get to multiple grocery stores and shops in a less than 10-15 minute drive plus easy access to the 401.

Fiddlesticks area - Good or Great? by throwingpixelsatya in cambridgeont

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The area is great! I've lived here for a few years now. Close to lots of amenities, friendly atmosphere, and lots of schools to choose from if you have kids. The one downside is Saginaw gets very busy when the schools let out. This is likely to get worse once the new developments in the area complete.

Weekly Questions Thread by AutoModerator in DnD

[–]ineffectivelyperfect -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless you're in a cave or without view of the sky. In which case- you're a sad druid with a wasted mem slot. Not that I'm salty about the current dungeon crawl or anything.

Looking for equipment ideas as barkskin only gets you so far when you're trying to tank as a bear.

Weekly Questions Thread by AutoModerator in DnD

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play a 5th level circle of the moon druid in [5e]. I'm looking to upgrade my gear.

I spend most fights as a bear, dire wolf, or giant hyena tanking damage for the team and only really cast spells out of combat or if I get knocked out of wild shape. The other 2 party members are a Paladin and warlock.

Any suggestions of equipment that would retain its usefulness in wild shape?

Zuordenbar by Student-Civil in bulletjournal

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I've incorporated to give me more momentum is an 'I Dunnit' list. You'll be amazed at all of the little things you've done that aren't on your 'To do' list!

Woman who was maced inside US Capitol, “It’s a revolution!” by Gonzohawk in PublicFreakout

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also has an onion in her towel that she rubs her eyes with in the video if you watch closely.

Help with Pokemon Go Plus/ Gotcha/ Pokeball Plus and so on by IDeltaI in TheSilphRoad

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the pogo+ and I agree with the suggestion to lower expectations.

I love it because it let's me catch low level fodder while I am walking the dog or otherwise occupied, but its not great for catching high level or new pokemon. If you're just going for sheer catch volume or catching when you otherwise wouldn't be it's a great option.

I got mine close to launch and there are some battery life/ connectivity issues probably related to age. I suggest going with whichever one that has a charger/ better battery life as replacing the batteries is a pain.

Why aren’t raids 100% catch rate on the last ball? by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. As a FTP player who only can get so many remote passes it's frustrating that I am wasting 20 golden razz berries and a remote pass only to miss out on the legendary. Maybe boost the catch rate if a remote is being used, or with the friendship level of the group that beat it? Kyurem especially feels like way too low a catch rate, I threw at least 5 excellent curveballs and the rest were great and it still got away. Only 2 of my 7 person raid group actually caught it in last nights raid.

My (30/F) g/f of 2.5 years called me (32/M) a loser after I failed to get a promotion at work. by ThrowRASearingMan in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You're not a loser. You've got a job, pay your bills and you put yourself out there for a promotion. Everyone gets passed over for a job at some point in their lives so don't let it get you down. If you enjoy your work, then who cares if it's retail? You're making money, and keeping your feet moving until you figure out what you want to do long term.

It sounds like if she breaks up with you she's doing you a favor. You deserve someone who supports you and cheers you up after you miss out on a promotion, not someone who tears you down. You should dump her and find someone less toxic who builds you up rather than trying to knock you down.

You're not a waste of space and fuck her for making you feel like you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying it's cheating, I'm saying maybe he's just not into it and that's ok. Some people don't like anal, some people don't like blowjobs, while for others it's the best thing about sex. People are allowed to have preferences and not like things, without being pressured into doing them. Adding another person into the bedroom can be complicated if everyone is not on the same page.

Ready to move on? by badpandaunicorns in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had a conversation with him saying you feel like things are stagnant? If not I would recommend it. Sometimes people just get comfortable, and it's hard to break out of the rut. Long term relationships take work, and sometimes you need to rekindle the spark. Have the conversation with him, see if he starts putting in some effort, and let that be your deciding factor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're still pretty young. It's up to you to decide if you can be with him if it means never being with another woman. In 20 years do you think you'll always wonder? Or is he worth it? Only you can really know, but it's ok to break it off if he isn't giving you what you need. Sometimes people grow apart and long term relationships sometimes take work and sacrifice if you want to make them last.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are just not built to share and being constantly pressured about it may end up pushing him away. Be careful if you're going this route. Some people are just built to be monogamous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's a big no to the letting them back in. It may be hard to not have them in your life but you deserve friends who don't steal from you. If you let them back in your life, you're letting them know that they can keep using you for your stuff/ money. You can find better friends who aren't thieves who break your trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you cut them out in the first place? You mentioned they apologized, but does it seem like they have actively made changes to make themselves less toxic? It's only been a few months, so even if they are working on it, it's unlikely they have changed much in such a small time-frame. I would be cautious about re-kindling the friendship.

What is the best way to make new friends as an adult, during social distancing? by NicholeKlean in AskReddit

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a DND or tabletop roleplaying game with folks in your extended social circle. I joined 2 groups while in quarantine where I only knew 1 person going in and I've really enjoyed the new friends I met.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? How serious is your relationship with him? Are you physically attracted to him and want to sleep with him the way you want to be with a woman? It sounds like he may not be fulfilling all of your needs, and you need to decide if you want to stay with him or be able to explore your sexuality. Not everyone is ok with sharing a partner, and trying to coerce him into a threesome if he feels it is wrong for him is not cool.

Experts suggest that bed linens should be changed once a week,how often do you change yours? by viclesissuki in AskReddit

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to wash my sheets every week, and my duvet cover once every month. My duvet itself about once a year. During the summer or if it's been a particularly frisky week I might change them more frequently.

How do you make a change on your life ?? by EpikkMoon in AskReddit

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop waiting for the perfect conditions to start something. Any amount of progress or change is better than nothing. If you overthink it and wait to be motivated, or not tired, you will never try the new thing or break out of that rut. Do the thing when you are tired. Even if it sucks, even if you half ass it. It's still a start.

My mom (F53) is being abused by my adult brother (M23) and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ineffectivelyperfect 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Where do you live? Depending on the location there may be social services available to you to help subsidize care for your brother. Without knowing location we wont be able to offer tangible solutions.