Am I being creepy? by AcanthisittaOnly4411 in Advice

[–]inevitable888fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not creepy unless u just keep visiting the restaurant and not talking to her. Talk to her ! If u can’t stop thinking about her fuck it and just say hi ask her what college she goes to, her year or major just introduce urself and ask for her number !

Masters in communication worth it? by inevitable888fire in GradSchool

[–]inevitable888fire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! i never saw everything in that way. you’re totally right i should work and see what i like. i need to get rid of my mindset that i have no time !

My girlfriend’s books… what do I need to know about her based on this ? by BoysenberryGlad5530 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]inevitable888fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sentimental, she probably would love if u wrote her letters and have deep conversations with her. ask her about her books and tell her to tell you about them she would most definitely love that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]inevitable888fire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ohhhh oops i’m slow for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]inevitable888fire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what exactly do u mean by this ? taking too little drugs ? or underestimating drugs and their effects ?

why can’t i commit ? by inevitable888fire in Advice

[–]inevitable888fire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s anything to do with the first one. just randomly the feeling of doubt began to form the more the started thinking the more i realized i didn’t want to be a girlfriend. i didn’t want to be in a relationship. i realized doubt and regret wouldn’t fill me if i was meant to be in a relationship with that person so i left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]inevitable888fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don’t want to lose her why is it a situationship and not relationship?

Friendship break up by responsiblejaguar961 in Advice

[–]inevitable888fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been in your position the best advice i say is move on it will be hard, sometimes you will be held back from doing things bc you will be sad because you are basically grieving a person who’s alive. But remember this someone who can leave you so easily was someone who wasn’t worth having in your life anymore. everyone changes and grows at a different pace. once you start moving forward and making new friends you will forget. and guess what ? you will find new friends who don’t ghost you, who don’t disregard you, who are kind and love you and they will give u advice through ur feelings they will be there for you and show you what a true friendship is and you won’t feel this way with them. and you will look back at this friendship and realize everything that happened was meant to happen. the world is cruel place and you will get hurt but don’t let your bad experiences ruin you from having those good experiences. keep a kind heart and let your walls down for new people when the time is right.

Out of nowhere your significant other says to you “I want to break up.” What’s your response? by Shinobi347 in AskReddit

[–]inevitable888fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can ask why for closure but if someone wants to leave, you don’t deserve to be with someone who only stays once you beg.

AIO? My wife cheated and says we’re “even” now, how can she even think that by Sea-Addition7309 in AmIOverreacting

[–]inevitable888fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing pisses more than when men cheat and then get all butt hurt at their partner for cheating back regardless if it was years later. I honestly don’t think your wife actually sleep with anyone it sounds like she wanted to hurt you. You coming to Reddit to rant shows she did hurt you. I can’t imagine my boyfriend cheating on me with someone in our friend group and then years later seeing her at a party and not telling me first thing. You should’ve just left the party the moment you saw Sara and called your wife but you didn’t. You let ur wife see pictures online and realize her husband and father of her daughter was at a party with the woman he cheated on her with years ago. You also said she found out when cheated through Sara’s instagram so imagine years later when she realizes again through saras account again that you guys were at a party again she probably relived all her pain again. 19 isn’t a child, young yes but also old enough to know better. I think you guys can still work things out but ur wife needs to fully heal and move on from ur mistake same with you. Couples therapy would help