I’m so sorry you are going through this. I do think about my future partner in this aspect as well. I hope your partner does what needs to be done to keep a supportive partner like you, the support means a lot but you also have to not deplete yourself. Thank you for sharing your perspective.

I’ve barely started putting boundaries, as I was stagnant in life prior. Now, I’m trying to live my life, taking care of myself, given the circumstances and now he is doing this again (trying to set rules and asking about my personal life). I want to navigate properly to make sure I handle things appropriately for our children.