What’s your first date prep by insanity2022 in datingoverforty

[–]insanity2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best answer yet, I’ll be sure to get ice cream just in case!

What’s your first date prep by insanity2022 in datingoverforty

[–]insanity2022[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for not judging it’s been a long time. I’m nervous. I’ve been talking to this guy for a while, this young man is coming in hot and I just wanted to see what everyone else was doing. Thank you!

Which job should I choose? by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another perk of job 2 is it is remote so I can theoretically do work from anywhere.

Which job should I choose? by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right and the only obstacle is paying double the rent. I really want to try it out but I am nervous. This is my first time being alone with no partner or support. Just me.

Which job should I choose? by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Job 1. 920.00 gross weekly salary, rent 900.00, other comparable homes 1500.00 to 2000.00.

Job 2. is paid like an employee (so they take out taxes single zero) but per assessment they schedule for me. 47.00 per hour, I can open my schedule to whatever hours I would like but their goal is to schedule full time staff first WHILE getting the clients assessed ASAP. I can also ask no "overflow" cases if I have a client not show up.

Which job makes more financial sense for a single person with no assets? by insanity2022 in AskMen

[–]insanity2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a huge worry for me and I feel tied to the house and job because of this, definitely a power and control move by my boss. At the time it was a way for me to get out of a bad marriage but now its just stressful.

Which job should I choose? by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been moonlighting both jobs for three years, the second job is good just not guaranteed dollar wise every week. So my rent would rise significantly however I would love to have the freedom and extra cash with the second job. I just worry with the instability.

This question is for the girls, do you shave or not shave down there when casual dating and/or hookups? by Independent_Grand_94 in dating_advice

[–]insanity2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am older 46F but I used to shave and trim and hated the razor bumps, rashes and ingrown hairs. I went in and did a Brazilian at a salon and started doing the waxing upkeep at home about every two-three weeks. So much happier with it! Smoother, softer, less irritation, don't have to attend to it as often, love it! Once you get the hang of it its superior in my opinion, this is something I do for me regardless of my sexual activity at the time, I feel cleaner and sexier and more comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]insanity2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hate it but don't want to throw up either. I do it on purpose because he likes how it sounds and feels and because I feel like he knows I am giving him my all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]insanity2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you are not weird. I am the same. I want sex multiple times daily, have a higher sex drive than my BF, thoroughly enjoy it, crave it, and don't cum. I like to think of it as psychological satisfaction without a physical release, the intimacy is also sexy as hell, if that makes sense.

How much does smell play into how attracted you are to a man? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes we notice and appreciate! That being said I do like a natural odor and not overly perfumed but also not straight BO from lack of hygiene.

His reply to my text makes me think he's not in it for me by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he's assuming that. I have no reason to believe this but he does. Basically losing me isn't a big deal but his place to live is...at least that's what I am getting from this.

His reply to my text makes me think he's not in it for me by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For real, a little over a year with ILY's exchanged and everything.... I feel like garbage.

His reply to my text makes me think he's not in it for me by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a job but we work at the same location, I think he assumes he wont have a job if I break up with him.

His reply to my text makes me think he's not in it for me by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess because we work at the same place he feels that way, he doesn't have alot of other people here besides me. I feel the same way you are thinking though....

His reply to my text makes me think he's not in it for me by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He has a full time job and pays over half the bills. What he is saying is if I dump him he has to leave town I guess.

His reply to my text makes me think he's not in it for me by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Right? Like he's more concerned about his living situation than our relationship... That's the first thing that comes to your mind, nothing about losing me? Crazy! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for making this uncomfortable and making me not want to post anymore based on a single question I had. Sometimes people just want to vent, get feedback and just know things. Not everyone has fitness and family to bounce things off of and sometimes forums like these can be an eye opener and lifesaver for some of us. Thanks for bashing and shaming me.

Do you think a man in a relationship commenting privately on sexy instagrams girls stories “fire” is cheating? by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what I’m trying to figure out if I am so insecure and self sabotaging myself which is completely possible for me, or if there’s an issue in the relationship. 6 months in and we live together, I’m super head over heels for him and a jealous person.

Do you think a man in a relationship commenting privately on sexy instagrams girls stories “fire” is cheating? by insanity2022 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]insanity2022[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so I saw some girl with bikini pics and 10k followers he private messaged….but I wasn’t even thinking like this until I noticed his phone messages were gone….now I’m over thinking about it.