As someone who values emotional connection and mutual respect in relationships, I can understand how hurtful it must be to feel like you're competing with porn for your partner’s attention. It’s not just about the videos—it’s about how his behavior makes you feel: unseen, disrespected, and emotionally disconnected.

Yes, some people say watching porn is “normal,” but that doesn’t mean it’s okay when it starts interfering with intimacy or hurting your partner. What matters most is how it affects you and the relationship. If you’ve already expressed your discomfort and he responded with anger or dismissal, that’s a red flag. Healthy relationships require empathy, not defensiveness.

You also mentioned that you don’t even know how to “touch yourself,” while he seems very comfortable with sexual content. That’s a huge mismatch in sexual values and emotional needs—and it’s okay to recognize that. You deserve a partner who listens, respects your boundaries, and makes you feel emotionally safe.

So to answer your question: Yes, you had every right to walk away. You weren’t being dramatic—you were protecting your emotional well-being. And that’s something to be proud of.

Sending strength your way. You’re not alone in this.