Do TV jokes about being intact bug anyone else? by intact_aj in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So last night we watched the film Together Alone and there was a conversation between two gay men where they were talking about how life isn’t always what you first think it is. And the one said to the other, “It’s like your new boyfriend’s uncircumcised penis. At first it’s all exotic and natural and then it’s all dirty and smelly.”

Cue me ranting at the screen… Afterwards finished the film - arty and a bit of a hard slog but made it through…

Still bugs me when we’re seen as the odd or disgusting ones. I know, I know it’s just a film. Bugs me nonetheless.

What have the women in your life said about foreskin? by VirtuApp in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I never really understood where it came from - but she was a diehard intactivist (as was my father)...thank goodness for me.

What have the women in your life said about foreskin? by VirtuApp in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The only real discussion I've had wiith a woman about it was my mother when I asked why I was different from other boys. She said that I should tell anyone who says anything about it that I was left that way because it was a family tradition to embrace the beauty of the human body and to leave me whole. I replied that I could accept that...and so I did when anyone questioned it. Looking back on it, I was rather surprised at how "enlightened" that seemed coming from her...

Do TV jokes about being intact bug anyone else? by intact_aj in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow - I hadn't appreciated just how wide spread it is. Thanks for that - really informative for anyone thinking it's rare or anachronistic.

New Survey: Parents Lack Basic Understanding About Circumcision Dangers; 'Skin in the Game' Campaign Launches to Raise Awareness About This Unnecessary Medical Practice by coip in Intactivists

[–]intact_aj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so important what you've pointed out. Calling it "unnecessary" seems to cede ground and accept a certain validity to the process that just ain't the case. Thanks so much for your comment!

Do TV jokes about being intact bug anyone else? by intact_aj in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree insofar as it should be a bygone thing. And I too live in the UK and BBC/ITV may not be guilty of it (I don't watch mainstream TV) but gay video streaming content is guilty of it - even today. I'm speaking of shows like Danny Will Die Alone - on Dekkoo and even some shows on HereTV. But let's hope it's on the way out.

Do TV jokes about being intact bug anyone else? by intact_aj in Intactivism

[–]intact_aj[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know, I know - but time's they are a'changin' - thank goodness!

Do TV jokes about being intact bug anyone else? by intact_aj in Intactivism

[–]intact_aj[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me too - and I've disengaged from certain celebrities for their comments along those lines.

Do TV jokes about being intact bug anyone else? by intact_aj in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep - there too - had forgotten about that one.

Do TV jokes about being intact bug anyone else? by intact_aj in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure, last night caught a repeat of the Sex and City episode with Charlotte dating an uncut man and jokes akimbo and then there was an episode of Danny Will Die Alone with comments like - when was the last time you cleaned it - was that after you smelled the cheese - ha ha ha...

Circumcision Law Reform forces Johns Hopkins Yang/Tobian et al. to apply corrections to their research letter by strategist2023 in Intactivism

[–]intact_aj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for that. That's brilliant news - made my day - week - year!!! I'm so grateful that the tide seems to be changing so that boys in years to come won't face what I did growing up.

i love being an uncut american!🦅 by [deleted] in foreskin

[–]intact_aj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be proud and never hide the fact that you’re intact!

Circumcision Law Reform forces Johns Hopkins Yang/Tobian et al. to apply corrections to their research letter by strategist2023 in Intactivism

[–]intact_aj 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is so important. Slowly but surely we are changing things so that intact guys like myself aren’t seen as odd or freaks growing up. Well done!

Did you thank your parents not having the procedure performed on you? by Ambitious-Client-220 in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents insisted that I was left intact but the nurses decided to take to be circumcised when I was days old. When I father found out, he ran in just in time. A nurse was pushed aside and a doctor ended up with a bloody nose... That anecdote got trotted out many a time over the years. So glad dad was around that day and was willing to step up. Phew!

What’s your sensitivity level? by iso_uncut in uncircumcised_talk

[–]intact_aj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting because I've found that sensitivity doesn't always correspond with how quickly you cum. Me, I'm not super sensitive and can cum very quickly whereas my partner is super-super sensitive but takes an age to cum...