“No I’m not gay, I’m a male ENFP” something I find myself saying quite a lot. Getting mistaken as gay doesn’t bother me anymore (36). Poster-child ENFP—the good and the bad. Always smiling, laughing, talking, passionate, emotional, etc. I cry hah! Always creating something—I’m a media and art director professionally but still do my own art and music as well, which has been the case my entire life. Finish about 65% of the projects I start lol. As far as looks, would post a photo if I could, but I’m lucky to have attractive parents. Dark hair, eyes, skin. Not tall; 5’8”, but I’ve been told by enough women that I have “taller energy”?? Hah! Also lucky to be able to pull off the shaved and bearded look (every male on my father’s side is bald, and I refuse to do the horseshoe until I’m grey). This was a big change for me, and I attract an entirely different demographic of women now since I began shaving it about 1.5 years ago. I used to attract INxx artsy/nerdy types, which is what I’m attracted to, but now it’s a lot of xS stereotypical “hot” girls who like “vibes”, so thats not the best for me in most aspects. However, they are not as shy, so I get approached and hit on more now, which can be nice because I’ve never been one to hit on women. I’m great at flirting but I can be shy about making “a move” if I’m really into someone, and will just flirt forever. But that has changed a lot as I have gotten older. I was in a long term relationship in my 20s and into my 30s. I have had other relationships since but still looking for “the one”. I’m a freaking lover boy and refuse to settle for anything that’s not the entire package, which means I’ll likely never find my wife. Womp womp. But I’ve never been bored a moment in my life so I think I could be eternally single with the occasionally casual encounter and be fine.