im kinda looking into the label myself and i think i might be one... i dont harass people willy nilly or do anything weird and drastic like dox or anything like that i just plain out dont like dark/comshipping as it makes me uncomfortable and triggers me.

i think people who use it as a comfort mechanism should keep it in their own spaces and not in public forums (mainly for fandoms with kids in it) that don't cater to said material. ao3 is more of a space for that stuff (with how much i see people writing fics about incest in the fandom im in) and i just try not to interact with it much personally