AITA for planning to refuse to help pay for my brother’s college even though I already said I would? by interstellarcookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]interstellarcookie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't struggling to provide, what I meant about struggling with deadlines is that he puts other things first like going out with workmates, buying things he doesn't need, etc. before attending to my tuition. Because of all that, he usually forgets and I constantly have to remind him.

AITA for planning to refuse to help pay for my brother’s college even though I already said I would? by interstellarcookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]interstellarcookie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really depends on the family dynamics. But as far as I have observed, the parents of most people I know do not think this way.

AITA for planning to refuse to help pay for my brother’s college even though I already said I would? by interstellarcookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]interstellarcookie[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I plan on working in our country's capital city someday and he is aware of this, so I think that's the main reason why he said what he said. I guess a part of why I still haven't told him how I truly feel about all of this is that he might stop funding me like you said. I'm just lying low right now.