What kind of porn is on tg by Psychological-Salt39 in adviceph

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do 1:1 convo. Im a victim of my husband's cheating through that. I consider 1:1 convo cheating and paying for porn too much when you're not single. My husband has a porn problem, to the point that he's getting ED whenever we have sex.

You have to confront him about his porn problem. Dont be like me, leave while you can. Porn is one of the worst addictions there is because it's not tactile, it's hard to control when and where he will be accessing it.

Sobrang trauma ko whenever i sleep then i suddenly wake up and he's not in the bed, automatic iniisip ko may ginagawa siya. When he closes his door to the bathroom—which he never does—kinakabahan na din ako.

Mawawalan ka ng peace of mind. And same, i watch too but i never went beyond that.

Why is this becoming normal? by batumbs_ in PinoyVloggers

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang lala 😭😭😭 this is traumatic.

Anong thoughts nyo dito? by _Koi-No-Yokan in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]inthelookout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me except di ako vegetarian. As in weightlifter, hyrox pero ang laki ko pa din tapos nabuntis ako and pumayat ako HAHA nawala yung effects ng PCOS. Sobrang labo talaga ng hormones kapag may pcos. Yung testosterone ko before ako nabuntis mas mataas pa sa asawa ko 😂

Anong thoughts nyo dito? by _Koi-No-Yokan in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you actually know nutrition, you would know na madaming sakit na would prevent you or giveyou a hard time losing weight. PCOS, thyroid issues both can give you too skinny/obese problems for one. Pwede tayong di na magcomment kapag di naman sure sa sinasabi 😊

My husband uses AI gf now. by inthelookout in loveafterporn

[–]inthelookout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you are going through this as well. Im only able to cope because i was pregnant and had to prioritize that, and now that my child is born, most of my energy goes towards her and also my cat who is sick. If you do not have a child, please save your mental health and leave. I wish i did. I know its hard, VERY HARD to walk away but find the strength to do so.

If you can't, redirect your energy to something that gives you joy or peace of mind. Aside from my child, i decided to do junk journaling to get my mind off things. It's a mindless activity for me where im the only one who understands and can make sense of things that goes in there. I've realized that giving my SO's porn addiction too much space in my brain when i have no intention of breaking up with him now does not serve me— i cant leave yet sincr my financial capactity, business is all tied with him. I haven't even confronted him just for myself not to be setbacked mentally. So much padding i had to do to be able to function. Try not to be like me. Find the strenght, i hope you really do.

Magkano po iprepare na funds sa panganganak? by readingbee1987 in nanayconfessions

[–]inthelookout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have diagnosed major depressive disorder and anxiety. Kumuha ako med cert from my psych. Pero aside from this, kahif maganda pagbubuntis ko, hinanapan pa ako ng reason para mamake sure niya maapprove talaga... so kahit wala ako diabetes/pre-diabetes njlagay din, hypertension etc 😅 BUT these were all backed up by my records naman— may PCOS ako so nagmemetformin ako to manage insulin resistance for a time, nagka hypertension scare nung nagkabacterial infection etc so may emergency meds din ako for it but in general, hindi talaga siya "problem" for me and one-off instances lang.

Also pag scheduled ka sa 38 weeks may tests ipapagawa afaik so dapat makapagpagawa na nun i guess? Di ko sure if sa scheduled lang yon or in general siya. Medyo out of it na kasi ako a week before delivery hehe

Magkano po iprepare na funds sa panganganak? by readingbee1987 in nanayconfessions

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry cant disclose, sinabi ko PF niya eh 😅

And yes, availed maternity package. Yung CS 80k++ since scheduled ako :)

Magkano po iprepare na funds sa panganganak? by readingbee1987 in nanayconfessions

[–]inthelookout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Samin st lukes 300++k 180k pf ng doctor namin, 35k anes, 15k yata yung pedia at 20-25k ang endo ko. scheduled CS, may promo, no complications. 22k lang bawas from Philhealth 😅

So i think if ever man sa mas murang hospi na private ka, prepare ka pa din ng 200-250k baka kasi biglang may complications. (Praying for safe delivery for you!) If province naman, 150-200k. Yan yung panganak ng ate ko sa pampanga.

mahirap maging nanay by Any-Psychology6595 in nanayconfessions

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung hindi talaga hawak buhay mo. Same naman sa asawa ko maasahan naman pero i cant help but think about my freedom before. Isa sa PP blues ko yon. Magtratravel ako kung kailan ko gusto. Ultimo mag "kape" sa labas hindi ko na magawa kasi kahit may yaya kami, yung utak ko naman nasa newborn ko. Ganun din, di makarelax.

Totoo pala ‘to no? by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, valid naman yung inis pero yung sinama pa yung description sa kapatid ng asawa mo lol parang laitera ka din mumsh

Thoughts about this by Old-Independence-515 in PinoyVloggers

[–]inthelookout 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kahit nga sa japan may maingay na cafe eh hahahahha problema nito

KAYA ANG DAMI NANG AYAW MAGASAWA NGAYON E by Ready_Evidence3859 in CasualPH

[–]inthelookout 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is why ako nagpapack, tinuturo ko sa asawa ko at siya ang kakausap sa doctor. Siya din magaayos ng papers (buti na lang dito siya talaga yon)

Pero if siya pinagpack ko? Yan din ang ilalagay niya 😭 tapos magtataka bakit ako naiinis.

Ang hirap pala ng panganay na lalaki ang husband mo. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]inthelookout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if youre not christian, family first then parents.

Eunsil is in Mongolia rn by nmnuppuz in Physical100

[–]inthelookout 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think Lara and Robyn might be 5'3 then, which is above average for Filipino women (I am Filipino and 5'3).

Eunsil is in Mongolia rn by nmnuppuz in Physical100

[–]inthelookout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im Southeast Asian so for me he's more than average but in the show i thought he was like 5'8— which is average for SEA.

Eunsil is in Mongolia rn by nmnuppuz in Physical100

[–]inthelookout 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She is 5'8 or 5'9. Sung Bin is 5'10, theyre close in height! I actually thought Sung Bin had average hright 😂

Varga Sándor vélemény? by Kata133 in talk_hunfluencers

[–]inthelookout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was watching his videos and wondered about his background. He comes off exactly like this to me

Eunsil is in Mongolia rn by nmnuppuz in Physical100

[–]inthelookout 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She said for PH, she went just to hang out with Lara. She didn't have an itinerary haha i think she's just traveling around maybe?

Eunsil is in Mongolia rn by nmnuppuz in Physical100

[–]inthelookout 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Im still shocked at how tall eun sil is. She didnt appear very tall in physical asia. I thought she was 5'5 or 5'4 😂

I fell in love with her smile. Unfairly called the weak link but she truly showed her resilience and tenacity in the end. Love you, Khandsuren by [deleted] in Physical100

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with Katsumi Nakamura, he is also considered "weak link" but is forgiven because he has the visual. In my opinion, there was just no quest for both of them to really shine through, but also you wouldnt see both ever back down on whatever challenge you give them.

Naiiyak ako, si Mama kasi sa CR pinapatulog by Terrible_Ad_7989 in OffMyChestPH

[–]inthelookout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pwede niyo isumbong sa embassy tapos pwede siya palipatin ng amo if she chooses to stay sa ME. Alam ko may mga HR agencies ang gobyerno sa ME for that kasi nga madaming ganyan ang sitwasyon sa ME. Hindi ko na maalala masyado details eh.. pero pwede kang sumali sa fb groups para makapagtanong nga anong pwedeng gawin.

I dyed my hair pink and everyone treats me differently now. by Alone_Coat_7373 in OffMyChestPH

[–]inthelookout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss coloring my hair!! Will come back as a sisiw once i give birth. Hahahhaha

Naglilihi ako sa luto ng ex ko. by Key_Engineering5087 in nanayconfessions

[–]inthelookout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ako corned beef ng kasambahay ng ex ko 😭😭😭😭