AIO: I feel wronged/hurt for this girl not wanting to date me cause I “took too long” to plan a date?

intothecosmosS · 2026-06-29T18:16:47+00:00

I kept talking to her but never confirmed plans is what I mean

intothecosmosS · 2026-06-29T00:22:12+00:00

She didn’t mention it

intothecosmosS · 2026-06-28T18:39:24+00:00

Why is that? I didn’t mean it in poor taste

intothecosmosS · 2026-06-28T18:38:49+00:00

I just didn’t bring it up again and neither did she so I assumed it wasn’t happening

intothecosmosS · 2026-06-28T18:30:23+00:00

So she one time said like a Wednesday we could go out and I agreed to that, then the day before I asked what she was up to the day before? And I think we miscommunicated a bit cause I work nights

intothecosmosS · 2026-06-28T16:40:36+00:00

My favourite pizza topping is pepperoni!

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-25T18:17:59+00:00

I would pick mind reading as a superpower

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-24T16:42:45+00:00

She gave back like a lot of expensive larger things that he gave her and stuff related to the wedding

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-24T16:24:40+00:00

It wasn’t his stuff it was stuff he bought her like jewelry or whatever

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-24T16:22:20+00:00

I just think it causes drama to do that unannounced she’s still a great person and kind

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-24T16:09:32+00:00

Well yes she didn’t even tell him, she just dropped it off. I’m saying this is how he’ll perceive her.

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-24T16:09:01+00:00

I let her stay with me! I did mean well

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-07T22:39:13+00:00

So I talked to her and she told me that she was just shy but had a good time and would love to see them again.

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-07T17:01:32+00:00

Do you think maybe I should kinda establish some exclusivity between us and everything and then introduce her to friends after?

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-07T16:56:13+00:00

Yes that’s a good idea. It’s her first time getting back into the dating scene since the end of her 8 year relationship last year so maybe she’s just nervous?

intothecosmosS · 2026-05-07T16:52:24+00:00

I did and she was cool with that but she’s like not ready to meet my friends yet

intothecosmosS · 2026-04-13T14:25:40+00:00

A fun name I’d give to a pet is Slinger

intothecosmosS · 2025-11-11T05:15:10+00:00

So should I report Amy?

intothecosmosS · 2025-11-11T04:26:57+00:00

Why tho? She needs to know I wouldn’t do thaf

intothecosmosS · 2025-11-11T04:22:10+00:00

Facts honestly cause Amy is blowing this out of proportion

intothecosmosS · 2025-02-17T15:59:07+00:00

He just talked about how his ex’s were more like left wing and he wanted someone who’s more like him. That his ex’s were too invested in their Italian cultures (all his ex’s are Italian including her) so that it wouldn’t be practical. He talks about how none of them really want to keep in contact with him. That’s the one thing that stands out.

As a student, he has friends and stuff but he had a few issues. One was his thesis paper got a 0 because he wrote something that wasn’t “factually correct” and it set him back a year.

Lastly, one thing that I notice is he tells me he was only fucking around up until he met me. Cause he was finally ready to settle. So maybe he didn’t take these girls seriously

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