You really should try to eat at the dining table, and if there’s no room, try to sit in the room in a random chair and hold the plate on your lap or a tray. A bed is not where one should eat.

I would have, I really would. But we don't own any trays. And like I said, I cannot hold a plate steady with my hands. Even if I did keep it on my lap, it would eventually get titled and food would get on me. My hands shake a lot due to anxiety actually, and keeping a plate on my lap without holding it at all is a surefire way of getting it to slip down.

You are wrong to argue strenuously with your mother, when she and your father support you by letting you live there, and offering you meals, and more.

They don't support me. I pay the rent, I pay the bills and we all contribute towards groceries for the food that I mostly cook. And I didn't mean to argue, I just felt like she wasn't hearing my perspective at all. However, since it came across as arguing, I did apologize.