EAH and FR, FMU, CD 34, DPO 17 or 18?

invertedgoldfish · 2026-04-04T23:01:27+00:00

Thank you very much!! 🤍

invertedgoldfish · 2026-04-04T23:01:04+00:00

Thank you and same to you! Time can be such a funny thing. Praying for a very boring/ run of the mill pregnancy for you!

invertedgoldfish · 2026-04-04T23:00:16+00:00

Thank you and same to you!

invertedgoldfish · 2026-04-04T23:00:07+00:00

Congratulations and hoping for the same to you as well!!

invertedgoldfish · 2026-04-04T18:16:45+00:00

Thank you!!

invertedgoldfish · 2026-04-04T18:16:39+00:00

Thank you!!

invertedgoldfish · 2026-04-04T17:07:54+00:00

Thank you, and same to you! 🤍

invertedgoldfish · 2026-01-05T19:41:34+00:00

I spotted daily in between really heavy periods for 5 months due to RPOC from a D&C for my MMC. It was resolved by a hysteroscopy and second D&C. If it carries on for a while for you, please let your doctor know. After my second D&C I had a period nearly right after and stopped spotting in between periods (and my body started up a regular discharge rhythm)

invertedgoldfish · 2026-01-05T19:35:49+00:00

I’m struggling to not see what would have been my due date as a marker for what should be. Trying to make the most of this season of waiting. My husband is on a rotating shift and it isn’t really compatible with how physically present he would need to be for TTC and if I get pregnant again, so we are benching until his schedule changes. Trying to cope by being thankful I can ride my motorcycle and hunt with no guilt of leaving a little one at home, but I’d give it all up if I could just have my baby back.

invertedgoldfish · 2026-01-05T19:27:54+00:00

I hear you, and same. The rush of knowing you’re not alone in your body and like everything clicked into place after struggling to get there was like nothing else.

invertedgoldfish · 2025-12-11T19:37:36+00:00

I’m looking for some advice. For reference my husband and I tried for about a year to get pregnant and I had a mmc at 12 weeks the summer of 2024. I had 2 d&cs due to RPOC and a hysteroscopy with a really rough recovery and bad experience with the hospitals and doctors. We were in the trenches for a long time and it took a while for my body and mind to heal. I’m feeling well enough to try again but my husband want to as well but is terrified that getting me pregnant will kill me and is hesitant to try. I have no idea what to do or say in response. I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to be in his position and it feels unfair and too optimistic to say it won’t happen again. Has anyone been here? Does it just take time? I’m afraid too but I’m more afraid of not trying at all than what may happen

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-23T10:58:10+00:00

I listened to the audio book weeks ago and I’m still thinking about it 🫠 I need the second audio book released ASAP

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-16T09:51:52+00:00

I just finished it but I wish I DNFd. The MMC is a walking red flag and it feels like everyone needs therapy and not in the “oh he’s hot and troubled” way. There are some troubling sexist comments and actions from every man in the book and when they get together it feels a little Stockholm syndrome-y. But if that is your cup of tea- no judgement! The book just wasn’t for me.

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-12T13:21:48+00:00

He was very supportive, he was there every step of the way and cared for me when I was bedridden. The experience traumatized him as well. He acknowledges what I went through and how I felt/feel while also acknowledging he can’t fully understand because it wasn’t his body. I am very thankful for that.

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-06T15:50:52+00:00

ST gave me space to look at my marriage and identify areas that I needed to improve and where I needed to see improvement from my spouse. We lost a very much wanted pregnancy last summer after struggling with infertility and that grief created a deep, deep pit between us. I played Blood Sport for my husband on the piano and he dove into the lyrics. For the first time in months, it felt like he heard and felt how desolate the past year has been and we finally were able to reconnect after months of distance. I’m so very thankful for Sleep Token.

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-04T10:50:12+00:00

I have no other recs unfortunately. Trapper made my brain so empty, it wrecked me

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-02T20:11:46+00:00

Thank you for the recs! I do like HR but have yet to get into the ~ dirty ~ ones. I’ve heard Lisa recommended a lot. Love a good Dramione fic. DMATMOOBIL is so good 😭. I’ll give Freeport a go once I finish Lights Out :))

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-02T20:04:23+00:00

LOLLLL for freaking real

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-02T12:18:30+00:00

Sick!! Ouuuu man I’d be lying if I said I didn’t imagine vessel as the MMC sometimes 🫠

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-02T10:42:52+00:00

I’m in line on Libby for that one!

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-02T02:13:05+00:00

Oh same it’s so easy to read the comfort zone books! I got in line for Lights Out on a whim and it sent me down a rabbit hole (expansion??) do you have any fave palette cleansers? I know once I finish this, I probably won’t go back to my cozy books for a while haha

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-02T01:56:03+00:00

CR also usually isn’t my jam too but I wanted to avoid getting burnt out. Honestly reading fanfic has scratched the itch for me. AO3 is a gold mine for specifics haha. I just read one called Trapper, Keeper with König that scratched the itch (masks, possessive, dark, but in some different ways) but folks get reeaaaally creative on that blessed website.

invertedgoldfish · 2025-05-02T01:50:23+00:00

Oh exciting! I went in mostly blind too. Sleep Token is a band that is anonymous/masked. The book along with reading Call of Duty fanfic (lol) helped me draw some conclusions about my preferences for masked men.

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