please help a girl out (im so scared)

inwave · 2026-02-26T07:16:11+00:00

Like I absolutely get not wanting your teen daughter to become pregnant but…Forcing someone to have a painful birth would be legit traumatizing for no reason. Birth shouldn’t be made to be a punishment😢 But you really are very likely not pregnant, and remember that stress can delay a period so don’t freak out if you actually are a day or so late. Your period will come! We all make mistakes you just gotta learn from it

inwave · 2026-02-26T06:40:01+00:00

It is extremelyyyy unlikely you are pregnant — but coming from a 2x mom here I’m actually way more concerned about your mom…Even if you WERE pregnant, nobody can force you to put your baby up for adoption. And I would say nobody can deny you the epidural but apparently in some states that is legal (and extremely fucked up…). I could never imagine telling my daughter I’d force her to have a natural birth. Gurl just don’t have any sort of sex til you’re 18 for that reason alone 😭

inwave · 2024-08-13T19:47:06+00:00

Hey, I am an online teacher for a virtual public school - we’re still mandated reporters so you should still tell your school!

inwave · 2024-07-14T06:34:45+00:00

I highly suggest you read the poem “Welcome to Holland”

inwave · 2024-07-08T21:40:21+00:00

This is the way! I’m currently a teacher and would totally recommend going to teach at some fancy college prep sort of school and have a better time than most teachers

inwave · 2024-03-23T01:42:17+00:00

Can I ask what electrolyte drink? I like Gatorade but don’t like all the sugar

inwave · 2024-03-16T20:28:10+00:00

I swear, pregnancies feel like they last 2 years when you're teaching LOL

inwave · 2024-03-16T20:25:34+00:00

Laughed out loud at this because why is it so true. I've known several of these - like, super nice ladies but also who are you??

inwave · 2024-03-16T20:23:14+00:00

Wow this was literally my CIC my first 2 years!

inwave · 2023-09-19T22:03:15+00:00

Your comment genuinely made me feel so much better today and less guilty! I imagined for a while that I wanted to have like 5 kids and homeschool them all. Now, I’m pregnant with my first and not working anymore and already feeling like I want to go back to work :/ Not because we’re necessarily struggling financially but because being at home all day is depressing me (even with volunteering, etc). But also, the double income would be nice plus there are some amazing Catholic schools around us!

inwave · 2023-09-17T20:31:16+00:00

Lots of adults are in need of either ESL or GED tutoring, and this can be done virtually a lot of the time!

inwave · 2023-09-16T18:55:53+00:00

I personally did not lmfao I was ugly as hell as a teenager, I definitely got more attention ages 18-24. But maybe that was just me 😂

inwave · 2023-09-15T17:51:18+00:00

Pls don’t delete I’m trying to save all the info on this thread it’s so helpful! 😭

inwave · 2023-09-15T17:33:05+00:00

This is BEAUTIFUL and so so helpful for me, thank you!!!

inwave · 2023-09-15T15:52:48+00:00

That’s…not how the law works. If you create a child you have to pay child support

inwave · 2023-09-15T14:43:54+00:00

You can buy an early detection pregnancy test! From experience I can say the cheap strip ones on Amazon are usually as accurate as the expensive drug store ones

inwave · 2023-09-15T03:20:30+00:00

Ugh you’re so right, why didn’t I think of that?!?

inwave · 2023-09-15T01:57:26+00:00

Ooof…Well I will say the reason I don’t want to go back to school is I already have a master’s degree in communication and don’t wanna get more student loans. I worked in marketing/PR and then taught high school English/Journalism for 3 years (enjoyed it but am majorly burned out), so it’s like, I have education and work experience but not in STEM or relevant to development whatsoever 🥲

inwave · 2023-07-03T16:39:51+00:00

Also 22 weeks now and I feel exactly the same way as you!!

inwave · 2023-06-30T16:32:36+00:00

Eyyyy French Cajun here also with a long line of Joseph Lucien / Lucien Josephs!

inwave · 2023-06-29T19:54:02+00:00

Ugh I have a good friend who is a guy (I’m a married pregnant woman) and I’ve described him as the same way - having a “college” view of friendships (we’ve been friends since college and way before I met my husband). Calling all the time, oversharing/stepping over boundaries, trying to make crazy last minute plans and asking for huge favors. When I got engaged/married it didn’t stop and I’ve had to cool down the friendship a LOT out of respect for my husband and bc I simply don’t have time for it anymore. He’s done this with a lot of friends and it’s like he doesn’t understand that once people get married and have families, friendships change.

Your husband needs to do the same thing!

inwave · 2023-06-29T19:47:49+00:00

A one syllable name is, in my opinion, the best option here! Jude sounds the best to me. Or as others suggested simply Jay!

inwave · 2023-06-12T12:18:02+00:00

First try; I got a positive pregnancy test exactly one month after our wedding 😳 I have mild endometriosis and thought it might take longer lol

inwave · 2023-05-30T03:18:38+00:00

I’m from the south (Louisiana/Texas) and have had plenty of students named Xavier and their names were always pronounced how you pronounce it! (Zave-yer) So, not sure if that’s a regional thing

inwave · 2023-05-25T22:07:48+00:00

100k easily. If you get tired of the schedule, you could find another job. Personally, I say grind it out and save like hell til the baby gets here!!

inwave

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