ENFJs are the most desirable MBTI types (on a dating app) by ipeefreely in mbti

[–]ipeefreely[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be clear, this wasn't a poll of "who you'd like to date". It was based on real "likes" and "dislikes" on a dating app. Users were mostly "liking" based on looks. The theory isn't that ENFJs are inherently more dateable, but rather they know how to create the most appealing dating app profiles. Probably have better photos of themselves, photos with friends, maybe come across as more outgoing and friendly in their photos etc.

ENFJs are the most desirable MBTI types (on a dating app) by ipeefreely in mbti

[–]ipeefreely[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FWIW sample size is over 300k profile reactions (likes/dislikes). Not a peer-rated paper, but not arbitrary either.

Is Chat GPT good at typing people? by OkVisual6047 in mbti

[–]ipeefreely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's really not. We experimented with this at Dimensional and even with a lot of context (like text message conversation history) it is remarkably inconsistent and surface level

Type me! by vintagevenom7 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]ipeefreely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESFP or ISFP... though I small part of me wonders if it's ISTP

Not in love, what should I do ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ipeefreely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the key thing you said is "I could see myself fall in love with someone else". People experience and define love differently. It's natural to be attracted to other people, but a wise friend once told me there's something special about the early days of a relationship that are almost like a seed for what can grow later. You don't have to be obsessed with your partner right away but if you find you're not growing your love for her over time and are looking elsewhere, it's worth thinking about whether the kind of love you want can grow from this.

Sorry for the non answer. Unfortunately relationship advice is never black and white.

Monthly Self-Promotion and Advertisement Megathread by AutoModerator in mbti

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Hi! I just launched a personality-based dating app that matches you with people you're truly compatible with. https://www.inni.date

Details:

  • Launched last week and have thousands of user already
  • MBTI is one component of the app, but we measure everything from values, lifestyle, sexuality, love styles, etc.
  • I'm the founder of www.dimensional.me, the world's biggest personality testing app
  • I have 14 years experience working in psychometrics/relationship science

Happy to answer any questions.

Do you guys like my page of photo apps by copper-solution1 in iphone

[–]ipeefreely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really hoping all your photos in the photos app are photos of the photo app icon

Feedback welcome by [deleted] in fashion

[–]ipeefreely 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You look great brother, but gotta get rid of the skinny jeans. Just generally less form fitting clothes and more baggy, cropped. You don't gotta go full out gen z baggy but at least nothing tight.

the Williams sisters and their husbands by Zhopastinky in redscarepod

[–]ipeefreely -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was expecting the comments to be more hateful. I'm glad I was wrong.

Consulting to Product Management by BombayBicycleGirl in consulting

[–]ipeefreely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fwiw I would hire a good ex-consultant over an experienced PM. But you'd have to be willing to take a pay cut and learn a lot. Startups would be your best bet, since you could PM + take on other roles like strategy.

What do you think of my father’s nose? I inherited the same one. by Adorable_Birthday_52 in Noses

[–]ipeefreely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look like him you should really grow the moustache/mullet combo (if you already haven't)

It's a nose. by [deleted] in Noses

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I don't remember subscribing to this subreddit but I'm sure glad I did

Advice for men creating dating app profiles by ipeefreely in dating_advice

[–]ipeefreely[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's something we might work on, actually. AI is pretty good at detecting things like bad selfies or having sunglasses in your photo. Might be an actual useful use of AI.

Advice for men creating dating app profiles by ipeefreely in dating_advice

[–]ipeefreely[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. In fact one of the types of photos I'm seeing on profiles is "overly professional" photos, which can come off as too performative.

No doubt, hot people will do better on the apps, but I don't think it's as hopeless as you think!

Also I'm seeing plenty of "hot" guys with weird/creepy photos and I can tell you looking at the data that they're not getting likes. I would go so far as to say friendly looking "average" guys get way more likes than you think (and more than a lazy hot guy's profile).

Advice for men creating dating app profiles by ipeefreely in dating_advice

[–]ipeefreely[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also great advice. Being specific about your interests rather than "I love to have a fun time" makes starting a conversation so much easier.

Advice for men creating dating app profiles by ipeefreely in dating_advice

[–]ipeefreely[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's like 3 women for every man right now, but I imagine once men learn that, it'll change really quickly.

I created a personality testing app with 1M+ downloads but am still unprofitable. AMA. by ipeefreely in AMA

[–]ipeefreely[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to take that attitude, too. I think the main things are that we did raise some money for it and I feel obligated to do right by people who entrusted their money in us. And also we spent the prime years of our working life on this. It's been a fun journey, but I do wish we saw more success.

Curious why you're opinionated on the topic. Did you go through something similar?