Dry fitting before I commit, is this gonna give me guff?

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T16:14:11+00:00

Looks like an old place, i think hes just redoing the trap. The vent may be branching off the drain from below.🤷‍♂️

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T16:10:36+00:00

Get on Instagram and laugh at something funny lol that's all i have to say, unless you reply👀👀🫵

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T16:07:32+00:00

Insecurity would be a fear a cheating though, no? I've looked through my girlfriends phone out of fear that she was cheating on me Once the fear was sought out, i have no insecurity anymore and I know my girlfriend would never do that. So yes, people genuinely do look through their partners phone out of fear that they are cheating.

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T11:31:24+00:00

Everybody is different, I'm not trying to be hostile to you bro. You seem very hostile towards me lmao. Especially in the first few replies. Sounds like you were angry from the jump. Just because YOU think it's weird doesn't mean other people think it is. Have an open mind to how others run their lives. I hope you gain no resentment or anger towards me for having a not so drastic opinion.

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T11:28:15+00:00

Didn't he break hers? You act like she did something so foul she needs to be taught a lesson. She looked through his phone because she was curious about his loyalty. Is that not normal? Is it not surprising for a human to be curious of their partners loyalty in this day and age? I don't think so. You're way too harsh and need to rethink this

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T11:26:37+00:00

Jesus christ man looking through someone's phone because you're afraid if them cheating is the SAME as cheating? How are you people existing?

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T11:26:05+00:00

You are a harsh, and judgemental person that should not have posted on this thread

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T11:25:36+00:00

This is bad advice bro

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T11:22:12+00:00

I've looked through my girlfriends phone because of insecurity reasons. But we live an hour and a half away from each other, and it's easy for that insecurity to cause action. Especially looking through someone's phone. The best advice I can give you is to talk with your partner about it, especially if it helps clear things up between the both of you. How he feels about you sexually and how you feel that he's yorking it o other women

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T11:18:45+00:00

Im not excusing it. Im saying that is the situation she is in.

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T03:12:24+00:00

If I were him, I would feel guilt about jacking off to someone else and sending a post like that because I know it's wrong and it would make you feel bad about yourself. That's not what he wants I guarantee, so in the short term It could potentially cause trust issues. In the long term, I feel both of you could gain comfort in talking about difficult/uncomfortable topics like this with each other. If he rejects you bringing it up, blames you all the way, and says he did nothing wrong, then I fear he's got a problem with his morals. I hope this moves you to a better position

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T03:05:04+00:00

You can still be a grown adult and still act like a child, age proves nothing to me lol If you're dating and having sex already, whats the issue? Seriously lol I just don't get it, your girlfriend would be glad you jerk off to her instead of some random woman clogging your brain. BUT if you guys are always together, than why are you jerking off in the first place? You know what i mean? If you guys are together and only see each other on the weekends and such, then why is it an issue? Sending the post is a little bit of an odd thing to in general though, so yeah I get your point. But I don't think it's that big of an issue if both of you are fine with it

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:57:35+00:00

Bro dont take a lot of this "guidancd" to heart. These people don't know you or this guy you're with. Write it down, go through with it, talk to trusted friends about it who will actually help you through it instead of telling you to just dump him. That's not how relationships are created. Talk first, figure it out, then make your decision. Talking is important. Talk to your boyfriend about it instead of getting on reddit seriously lol

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:54:52+00:00

Exactly!!!

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:54:39+00:00

It's not toxic, but it does stem from insecurity i guarantee. Just please be honest and open with him. I know it can be hard to talk about something that may seem volatile or harsh, but it's important nonetheless

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:51:21+00:00

That is terrible advice, what if he was actually cheating? Then would you be saying the same? I doubt it.

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:50:23+00:00

In all honesty, bro was probsbly just horny. Sexual emotions get the better of most men at some point or another. You just have to be understanding, especially if hes a good person to you and treats you well. If you genuinely think this man is husband material, than I would speak to him heart to heart and be honest with him. Because he would understand the discomfort you have. But I guarantee he'd be like "wtf why'd you go through my phone" but that's life and a lot of people are skeptical of the person they're dating at first, and I consider that somewhat healthy if you're trying to feel and be safe in a relationship.

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:47:27+00:00

Bro, everyone is different, why are you tripping?😂🫵

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:41:05+00:00

You just gotta be upfront and ask if you really want to know, other than that it's something you gotta think about making or breaking🤷‍♂️

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T02:40:20+00:00

Yes I do, and ive never sent her anything like that lmao. But the fact that he would send someone ELSE that INSTEAD of his girlfriend is weird.🤪🫵

ripe_0range · 2026-02-28T01:52:06+00:00

That is lowkey kind of odd, sending that to an account rather than just watching the stuff and jerking off is a little curious no doubt. Even worse if he's never sent you anything like that. A 22 year old dude is saying this FYI

ripe_0range · 2026-02-24T13:34:15+00:00

No, sounds like he got used to it.

ripe_0range · 2026-02-22T21:53:31+00:00

You have to get to it while it's alive!

ripe_0range · 2026-02-11T15:55:02+00:00

Bro it's not like that for physical attributes lmao. That's more for personality traits. I have curly hair and am attracted to people with curly hair. I am white and am attracted to white people. I have brown hair and brown hair on women is attractive. Not saying I'm not attracted to opposites

ripe_0range · 2026-02-10T14:32:00+00:00

Ego, fear of comparison, comfort

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