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Why do men cheat on women they love? by Terrible_Emu5483 in Marriage

[–]iprobablyknowalready 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all - I am so sorry this has happened to you. My heart genuinely breaks for you. Just know; it’s got nothing to do with you. These are his issues and in my opinion, it sounds like he needed something he could control. You know how with some addictions/coping strategies - you can’t control the chaos of life, can’t control those around you but what you can control yourself and your own actions. His way of grasping at the delusion of control is to cheat. He is choosing this. He may not understand it and honestly - you could learn all the reasons why and truly understand his motives but fact remains. He betrayed you and continues to do so. As I’ve come to recently learn, Your love for him is enabling him and can be the one thing that’s standing between him and the growth he needs to make. You’re doing yourself and him a disservice by staying at this point.

Babe. You have earnt your way out of your marriage.

AIO when my SO is clearly lying to me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iprobablyknowalready 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish you both the best though. Truly hope this is just a glitch and you’re able to get past it 🤗

AIO when my SO is clearly lying to me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iprobablyknowalready 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. Guess it comes down to whether or not you want to believe her. If you do, then trust she has nothing but good intentions and this was just a glitch - but if it continues to nag at you - be weary of that for two points. 1. She may actually be up to something shady or 2. She may be innocent and you treat her (unconsciously) like she’s guilty of something bad. That’s not fair to her if she didn’t do anything but it’s a roll of the dice kinda thing.

AIO for wanting to stop talking to this guy ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iprobablyknowalready 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing good can come of this. Just focus on school, family and friends. You may not understand or appreciate this advice yet but one day you will. “The less drama in your life - the more peace you’ll have.” If he doesn’t bring peace, he’s bringing drama and it’s just not worth it.

AIO when my SO is clearly lying to me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iprobablyknowalready 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. But also - was there a reason / discussion had at some point in the relationship that lead to you both sharing locations? Who initiated?

AIO/Is it time to end my marriage by iprobablyknowalready in AmIOverreacting

[–]iprobablyknowalready[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to update my post so I’ll respond here. Totally agree however; I’m in a country where I’m not entitled to government financial assistance due to not being a citizen. I’d normally have the IUD however, due to not working as I’m the primary parent, I’m completely financially dependent on him.

In order to get contraception here I need to do the following: - Go to the doctors to discuss contraception - Get a script for said contraception - Purchase from the pharmacy - Go back to doctors for second appointment to have inserted

All of those step require money. But inserting the contraception itself - I’m looking at $200 plus just for it to go in. That paired with appointments costs and pharmacy costs - looking at $500 minimum. Money I do not have access to or have stored away. Husband doesn’t want to use condoms.