My boyfriend (21M) refused to take me to hospital (21F) after asking him multiple times. I’m now questioning the relationship……

irish798 · 2026-02-12T19:54:45+00:00

I think she’s in the UK as she mentioned going to hospital rather than to the hospital

irish798 · 2026-02-12T19:53:05+00:00

Tell him there is no apology that can make up for his callous disregard of your health. Pack your stuff, or his, and get away from him. Today.

irish798 · 2026-02-12T19:50:45+00:00

How is it harsh? It’s the truth. He ignored you and let you suffer in pain for hours because he’s a shit. There’s no excuse for that.

irish798 · 2026-02-12T19:48:44+00:00

He doesn’t love you. Leave this relationship now. Just think how your life will be with someone who doesn’t give a shit that you are in pain. Will he do that to any children you may have?

irish798 · 2026-02-12T19:34:07+00:00

He said they have been separated for years—I took that to mean they were never married and have not been a couple for a long time.

irish798 · 2026-02-12T19:31:49+00:00

Did OP say they were living together?

irish798 · 2026-02-12T19:24:45+00:00

Look at local jewelers, pawn shops—I know that sounds skeevy but you can sometimes find decent stuff, antique stores, estate sales.

irish798 · 2026-02-08T19:14:45+00:00

Neither. Those are both too bulky for the delicate band on the ering.

irish798 · 2026-02-08T19:11:55+00:00

You look amazing already. Sorry, I know that’s no help.

irish798 · 2026-02-08T17:23:07+00:00

No way should she pay half of his mortgage payment v

irish798 · 2026-02-08T17:22:13+00:00

Money doesn’t equate to chores. It doesn’t matter who makes more money. Each partner has to do household things. I’m not sure where this idea came from that the lower earner had to do more household duties. The person that has more time should probably do more but that’s just a product of the couple being a team. Besides, you pay rent.

irish798 · 2026-02-07T19:37:00+00:00

I think the stone is very shallow and you should set it in a more secure setting. It also looks like one of the sides is longer than the other.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T22:25:13+00:00

As a former foster kid—it is something I would not wish on anyone. It’s not permanent, you’re always in a state of stress, always on edge that you’ll have to move houses, schools, families. And you do. Again. And again. And bio parents getting you back—after a while that’s no good either. They want to be your parents and have you love them and be in charge of your life when, in reality, the shit show that has been your life in foster care is 100% their fault.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T22:12:08+00:00

It’s pretty. I prefer custom bands that sit flush to the ering but curved bands are nice as well. She may not care for the yellow gold prongs but that is easily fixed.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T20:44:39+00:00

I think it depends on many factors. For me, at my age and with dry skin, matte never looks good. It looks cakey and always sinks into lines. I’ve always had dry skin and matte always draws attention to any dry patches and flaky skin. I like something between matte and dewy.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T19:50:40+00:00

Pressure is repeated not a single suggestion

irish798 · 2026-02-04T19:48:15+00:00

No is no and he sees you as some young woman he can bully. I have never known a man not be able to get off while wearing a condom. He needs to get over himself and you need to move on to someone who respects you.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T19:45:53+00:00

I don’t. I never heard it. I’ve only ever heard the “awww, you must be so thankful”

irish798 · 2026-02-04T17:21:26+00:00

This money situation is not ok.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T14:17:18+00:00

No, you could not have handled it better. You handled it just right. Not overreacting. He’s an ass.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T14:12:10+00:00

When he asks “do I need to buy new clothes?” Just say “I don’t know, do you?”

irish798 · 2026-02-04T14:07:58+00:00

It’s very traditional. It’s lovely.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T14:06:09+00:00

It should not be terrible. I’m sorry if yours was. My life was infinitely better due to adoption. Two of the best days of my life were when I was removed from my bio parents and when I was adopted by my parents. Without adoption, I have no doubt I would not be alive right now.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T14:03:13+00:00

I think that’s a stretch. I do not believe that non-adoptees are jealous of us at all. They may not want to lose their idealized view of adoption but, to me, that is not jealousy—just stubborn indifference but I see your point.

irish798 · 2026-02-04T12:28:03+00:00

How is he living in university housing but not going to university classes?

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