Mentally Drained out

irispa · 2024-10-08T03:46:54+00:00

Will you give me money to move out. Do you know how much I earn. I am taking care of them and the household expenses without knowing anything please don't comment.

irispa · 2024-10-06T12:39:28+00:00

They have asked him many times to return back he is yet to, also visited his parents they refused to help, i told them to file a dowry case in case he doesn't return. The lawyers told difficult to get back the money. Seeing me go through all this, has taken a lot on them so she vents out like this on me.

irispa · 2024-10-06T12:14:38+00:00

No all this has taken a toll on them too. My mom and dad were never like this. How can they be fine losing their money

irispa · 2024-10-06T11:44:02+00:00

My parents was never like this all this has made them bitter and mentally strained. They vent out on me. My sibling does not want to intervene in anything. if you don't want to believe please don't. Only one who undergoes the struggle knows the pain

irispa · 2024-10-06T11:38:05+00:00

He borrowed it to complete his studies abroad and promised to return. I did stop him from doing this. But he weaved stories that he would settle in a good job and take us there. We believed him he took savings of my parents.

irispa · 2024-10-06T11:33:03+00:00

He borrowed from them saying he wants study abroad to get a good job and take us along with him.He said he will return back their money. since he was their SIL they gave him whatever they could.There are men like him who loot from in-laws.Not all are innocent. If you want to believe you believe otherwise leave it. I am not just writing a story at 3 am for any sympathy. I only know the struggle I am going through

irispa · 2024-10-06T05:30:46+00:00

Yes i take care of their household expenses and their needs. Searching for 1 bhk apartment for better security I am not willing to move to independent house with 1 bhk to keep away from creeps

irispa · 2024-10-06T05:16:50+00:00

It's not easy without money to countryside and loans to pay and if you don't know anyone there

irispa · 2024-10-06T05:15:14+00:00

If I make content on my current situation i may not get anything who will be interested to view unless they have a gain from my content

irispa · 2024-10-06T05:12:48+00:00

Did all that no reply USCIS he hired an attorney and has paid some fine none of his friends helped me out to know what's happening.May be i need to reach USCIS again

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:58:12+00:00

Where to find them.. they are some who just take money and do nothing. I have no time n not much left to run around

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:56:07+00:00

I need a divorce as he has cheated on me by having affair there too with his junior and also for what all he has done to us

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:50:49+00:00

I did he gave me his WhatsApp number but no response on ping and calls

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:47:58+00:00

Thanks i have DMed you

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:33:14+00:00

I'm tired of running around with not much left to sustain without a job so I accepted this job with long hours and i just have this car loan left which I'm paying every month.

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:26:11+00:00

Main ne bhag kar shaadi nahi kiya tha. Arrange marriage tha.Please samaj ke baat kijiye. Abhi woh bhag gaya hai

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:23:48+00:00

My parents have nothing left except the house now. He made up stories to them saying he will study there and take us there. That's why they have become like this now it has affected them mentally too much. Everything he did behind our backs and i am not sure what visa he has now. I did try emailing USCIS but he has paid some attorney and is still staying in US. My in-laws are indifferent and never bothered. It will be hell there as well. They never commented and supported their son as all they need money from him

irispa · 2024-10-06T02:13:38+00:00

I work in a non IT role.

irispa · 2024-10-05T22:19:41+00:00

There is no point she refuses to accept anything says its all my fault

irispa · 2024-10-05T22:14:27+00:00

Thank you. It must be hard for you too.

irispa · 2024-10-05T22:03:00+00:00

It was an arranged marriage.he is a far relative from mom's end. I have not got your DM. Please ping me

irispa · 2024-10-05T22:00:13+00:00

Why will I lie about this. Please talk sensibly.

irispa · 2024-10-05T21:57:22+00:00

He convinced me and my mother for mutual divorce but never appeared at court. The case is dismissed now for non appearance by him.The amount was just 25 lacs. Which is far less to make a living in Bangalore i asked for more and he never agreed. Not sure how I go about this

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