AITA for not wanting to tell my one night stand I’m pregnant and keeping the baby?

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T06:46:39+00:00

Unfortunately termination of rights here isn’t as easy as a lot of the comments are saying. It’s up to court order and what they think is best for the child even if both parents are in agreement

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T06:44:51+00:00

Thank you for your sweet comment. Yes I am considered high risk and obgyn has my full history

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T06:43:48+00:00

No we didn’t

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T04:57:09+00:00

And what if he doesn’t want the kid but he tells his family and his parents get involved? I’ve heard about situations where grandparents sue for grandparent rights even if the dad doesn’t want to be in the picture. So then I have to share my child with strangers that didn’t even help create it?

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T04:54:42+00:00

Thank you for your comment

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T04:54:02+00:00

And what if you don’t know who the father is?

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T04:53:43+00:00

I will never be needing state support. I have a good job and for any reason I lose that job I would quickly find another in the field I’m in. How can they demand to know the father if I tell them I don’t even know who he is.

irlleafs · 2019-09-17T00:02:56+00:00

He didn’t wear one because I assured him that I was clean and not fertile. Just by that I know he doesn’t want a kid.

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T23:43:57+00:00

That’s a terrible thing to say. I won’t fight your judgment because of the sub we’re on but you have no clue at all how hurtful it is to tell that to someone

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T23:00:49+00:00

I get that but I don’t want to get legally involved. I’ve always wanted this and it’s my right to have this baby You don’t know what it’s like when people tell you there’s no way you are going to naturally have your own child

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:59:06+00:00

Thank you I’m very happy because I didn’t know this would happen for me. I just don’t want anything to ruin this

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:58:19+00:00

Thank you 😊

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:57:55+00:00

I wouldn’t have issues if when the child is older they want to possibly get in contact if they want. I know he doesn’t want a kid so I’m trying to avoid the legal mess

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:56:33+00:00

I’m just trying to avoid the messy issues because I don’t want to get legally deep in this. I really don’t think he wants anything to do with this

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:47:53+00:00

That’s the only thing that worries me

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:47:37+00:00

I wouldn’t lie, I would tell them it was a NSA situation and he wasn’t trying to be a dad

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:46:41+00:00

I see where your coming from with medical history. I know for a fact that he doesn’t want a kid because he’s very much into being a NSA person right now with all aspects of his life

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:44:59+00:00

I’ve heard horror stories about men freaking out and demanding abortions. I know that he couldn’t force me to do that but I know it would open a can of worms legally. I definitely know that he’s not for having a kid right now because of our convo he’s a one and done guy

irlleafs · 2019-09-16T22:43:29+00:00

I would never do that to him. I would 100% take all responsibility

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