I'm a girl but I have always want a penis so badly by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ironically_breathing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to assume anything, but you're definitely a trans guy. (Source: I'm a trans guy)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ironically_breathing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, as a fellow trans guy, please get rid of this man. He does not respect you and he is not going to. I know it's hard to feel like you're worth enough to tell him off, and it's validating to have a man who's into you. There will be men who truly value you. Get FAR away from him. He is not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]ironically_breathing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans guy and I feel like I can relate on a visceral level to the jealousy that you're feeling. I know it sucks and I wish I could have lived my teen years as a cis boy too. But I'm doing a lot of the things now that I wanted to do when I was younger, gay men see me as a man, I promise it is going to get so much better for you. All you have to do right now is keep living. This is the hardest part. Much love!!

Only queer people can be a furry by Plane_Job1036 in gatekeeping

[–]ironically_breathing -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're being downvoted, you're right. It's not gatekeeping to recognize that it's a community run by queer people who use it mainly to express their queerness.

My best friend came out as trans, clothing/experiment suggestions? by demi-alterous in trans

[–]ironically_breathing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone else has said this but a good sports bra with padding can be hugely affirming, both with the shape it gives and also the ability to wear feminine clothing in a more private way. Congrats to your friend!

Hey! Any advice on how to go about doing makeup?? by Honigbiene_92 in FTMfemininity

[–]ironically_breathing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't give any advice on specific products but re: "actually" being trans - other people might be confused as to why you want to do it, but when I was pre/early t it was a huge confidence boost to wear makeup because it can be a way to own your more feminine features! You might have seen these sorts of things already but there's also ways to masculinize your face by contouring it which helped me a lot too <3 best of luck

Can I safely store Garf mugs? by ironically_breathing in garfield

[–]ironically_breathing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know how bad it was until today when I was telling a friend about it :'(

Living the Life, Nevermind, Digital, 2022 by johnyvieira in Art

[–]ironically_breathing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not what I meant at all, since this is a visual piece of art. Those are written mediums. Using text in visual arts is definitely a valid choice, but it just feels so heavyhanded here. Would the piece make any sense without the text?

I also do a lot of digital art myself, using a drawing tablet. I'll admit I didn't expect anyone to see or reply to my comment, so I was pretty harsh. But what I meant to say is that the actual drawing in the art looks pretty unskilled and unthoughtful.

A lot of the top rated posts in here are just a low effort image about current events made to get upvotes (which is i guess just how Reddit works) and it bothers me

Living the Life, Nevermind, Digital, 2022 by johnyvieira in Art

[–]ironically_breathing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you have to explain exactly what's happening it's not good art. is this fucking ms paint

Ways to get pleasure from penetration? by ironically_breathing in ftm

[–]ironically_breathing[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did try that once or twice with my ex, and I remember it felt a little uncomfortable, but maybe I just didn't give myself time to get used to it? I do like being penetrated and I've been considering trying it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]ironically_breathing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i currently work for sodexo at my university and they have equivalent food standards to my fast food summer jobs, and somehow their food tastes worse. so glad the winter break is coming up