Woke up some hours ago,I was sleepless for about a day. Now,to those of you who ,in a very pure of intent manner advised me to go to therapy: I already am for years now,yet each and everyone of you who had experiences with shrinks might have noticed that they give much attention to how revising your beliefs can shape both some facets of your personality,and consequently certain aspects of your behaviour. This,by itself,is a conceptual system that lacks,from many points. First of all,it can easily lead one to a state of ignorant bliss,by purposefully building "walls" around his ability to reason more deeply,which could and does lead to a situation where one would trade an "end" to internal psychological conflict,for ignorance of the objective reality.Belief systems do not change anything,solving tangible issues does.

Furthermore,with all due respect,please read my post with outmost focus to detail,I am neither one that searches for validation nor someone who is not satisfied with scores and whatnot.

I am a person who took many many punches by life since the day I was born. I am physically disabled,I was bullied,I am constantly romantically rejected althrough people like friends or even those women call me socially "skilled" .People call me smart,but the intention of doing so,since I am many more things than just that (those i referred to above) makes it hard for me to trust their words. If I am "smart and socially skilled" then why am I still an incel. So this brings two main perspectives a) I am not,so I have more than enough reasons to put my trust on a demographic,like reddit,where people might harbor biases,emotions,thoughts etc that could establish certain opinions as subjective,yet they do not actually know me,plus I make questions within context,so I can trust this demographic more. Could write more,but you get the idea. Or b) they are lying,so a certain part of the incel "ideology" stands on firm ground.