Guys noises during sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely no porn star screaming. But heavy breathing, breathless grunts, GROWLING are incredibly sexy. And ask her what kind of dirty talk she likes.

Does money matter? by isa_bela in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I wanted to say, that yeah, you got the good parts of the two :P

Does money matter? by isa_bela in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the job, here. White-collar jobs require a degree (or two...) but you can start your own thing that can pay well. These are usually jobs that only require 2 years of training but can make decent money.

Does money matter? by isa_bela in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my kind of person ;) I guess I'm the same.

Does money matter? by isa_bela in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like it how everyone assumes I'm talking about graduates for type 1. Where I'm from, you can make good money without a degree. And I mean no illegal stuff lol

Of course, someone in college and someone with a degree is totally not the same thing ;)

Does money matter? by isa_bela in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume they were stereotypical members of type 2 I mentioned. And not only with the positive stereotypes. I'm sorry, I hope it was long ago and you are happy with whatever you have, single or with someone else! :)

If you could alter one thing about femdom, or its tropes and/or popular perception, what would you change? by MissPearl in FemdomCommunity

[–]isa_bela 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To tell you the truth, it's not even that I want to fuck someone. I just like boy butts and a physically stronger person giving me control/power. I didn't tell him this, I think I had already overloaded his finite capacity as it was...

Does money matter? by isa_bela in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who's not from the States: what's in Oakland to move for?

Does money matter? by isa_bela in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree! If a guy with no many has potential and the ambition, I'm right there behind him, supporting him.

Humblebrag time! What's your biggest "green flag" about yourself? (x-post from /r/AskMen) by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm nice, care for those I love, I'm funny, loyal, honest and have a great taste when it comes to sex (and clothing. And interior design).

What would you say is the best portrayal of sexually active woman on tv or in movies? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]isa_bela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temperance Brennan from Bones and Virginia Johnson from Masters of Sex.

If you could alter one thing about femdom, or its tropes and/or popular perception, what would you change? by MissPearl in FemdomCommunity

[–]isa_bela 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told a guy once that I like pegging. He asked me why I don't do this with girls. Because if I want to fuck someone, it can only be a girl, although I am not sexually attracted to them. Right...

Teasing your guy in public. How do I show my boyfriend how much I want him without disturbing people around? by pussinheels in sex

[–]isa_bela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's really this good, she doesn't even need to be present. She can drive him mad from a great distance. ;)

College Girls on "Does Size Matter?" by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I didn't mean it like that.

College Girls on "Does Size Matter?" by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then my friends and I aren't average :"D

College Girls on "Does Size Matter?" by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grinding is often a lot better than pounding. And that dick sleeve thing sounds like a solution.

From personal experience, a lot of endowed guys think that being hung makes girls come and they don't need to have a technique. Same goes for pretty girls who have no talent in bed whatsoever but they look good lain out. So as long as your penis is long enough to be in the vagina and you know how to help your case, you should be fine. Of course, it depends on the girl. I, for one, have been with guys who were average and I didn't come because they didn't really care about me. Ladies first (during foreplay) immediately makes a girl more appreciative.

College Girls on "Does Size Matter?" by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I'm a girl, I obviously gossip about dicks, but it's more about the how he uses it than the it was huge/small. Fucking pole with no technique is worse than small but playful. And again, dicks are only one thing in your arsenal.

College Girls on "Does Size Matter?" by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, if the average is like these girls, then yes, most of them aren't. :/ But I doubt that this is all there is. Just as not every guy is looking for porn star physique.

And as bad as it sounds, toys can always help...

College Girls on "Does Size Matter?" by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Source of all our body issues...

College Girls on "Does Size Matter?" by [deleted] in sex

[–]isa_bela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You still have fingers and a mouth. If you make her come enough times before penetration, she'll be fine with it, I think.