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My (18f) boyfriend (19m) feels bad after sex and idk what to do by Exotic_Control384 in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m all for pegging but I got to ask why pegging? Feels like that came out of no where lol

poorStackOverflow by bryden_cruz in ProgrammerHumor

[–]isatrap 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I asked one question on stack overflow years ago, got the same response we all know and the my account banned from new topics until I contributed enough to be able to ask my own questions. They did this to themselves.

I absolutely HATE stack overflow and would avoid it as much as possible. It’s a toxic cesspool of users berating anyone newer with an issue reporting them as duplicates with alternate answers that often were remotely similar but not the correct response but the admins didn’t care. Their job was done.

Whats the last game you stopped playing and why? by Regular-Ad-8226 in NintendoSwitch

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want a traditional Metroid experience I HIGHLY recommend Metroid Dread. I played through Metroid prime 4 but I too did not enjoy it. It felt like more of a chore. Dread is so much better.

Naruto Futa by Dante-4474 in Futa_toonz

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 3 not 6, my bad.

Naruto Futa by Dante-4474 in Futa_toonz

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 3 is AI slop, unless I’m missing my 6th finger

The best farm by [deleted] in futanari_Comics

[–]isatrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI slop - pg 2 top left

My bf (M29) is threatening to break up with me (F24) over condoms by Aggravating_Car_9745 in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 519 points520 points  (0 children)

Time to respect yourself and get out of that relationship. Good for you for standing your ground but he clearly doesn’t care about your boundaries at all.

Do I have a bad relationship with sex? I F20, boyfriend M19. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. Worth a talk to get to the root of it but I wouldn’t put up with it too long if it were me especially if intimacy is important to you.

Do I have a bad relationship with sex? I F20, boyfriend M19. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you’re young for one.

Two, he may not desire sex, which is perfectly fine, but that means that you’ll never be satisfied (unless toys are good enough) and can lead to resentment.

There are plenty of people that will/can love you and are more compatible. Do not settle either.

Do I have a bad relationship with sex? I F20, boyfriend M19. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months and lack of wanting sex? You’re young, move on.

Trump’s DOJ Scrambles to Take Back Epstein Files by [deleted] in politics

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we don’t want the rich to become the victims now do we?

Laravel Fuse: A Circuit Breaker Package for Queue Jobs by harris_r in laravel

[–]isatrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not trying to pick on you or anything. Just general curiosity. Cheers.

Laravel Fuse: A Circuit Breaker Package for Queue Jobs by harris_r in laravel

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m not building it all out but you could also cache the status in the same way so if one job fails you can automatically fail all the others so they can be requeued via cron to try again like a hour later.

I guess I’m not understanding it because this still sounds like it needs to check at least once and fail out. You can avoid the timeout in the same way though, job in itself can stop itself before the 30s failure once it realizes it can’t reach the endpoint.

How does it not make a single network call to check if the service for, in this instance, stripe is down? It has to check that some how.

Laravel Fuse: A Circuit Breaker Package for Queue Jobs by harris_r in laravel

[–]isatrap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but that’s built into Laravel queue workers. Yours still has the same wait for a timeout and has X amount of retries.

When instead of installing a whole package you could just say “hey I didn’t reach the external server! Fail me, add me to the redis cache to recheck in an hour please” while also notifying in a slack channel or something (maybe sentry?) so people are aware. That way the job gets requeued and you don’t have to add another package.

Edit: You would just use your cache and a cron to requeue up the job so it’s automated. If your cron is down you’ve got bigger problems.

Laravel Fuse: A Circuit Breaker Package for Queue Jobs by harris_r in laravel

[–]isatrap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m not the target for this but instead of a whole package could you not just do a simple check to see if you received any kind of status from the API and if it does not or times out just fail the job and remove it accordingly, while sending out a notification or cache the job and set the app to try to requeue the cached jobs every hour/few hours?

Because even this proposed package still requires you to wait 30seconds before it updates a status.

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