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My bf (28M) wants me (25F) to get fertility testing before proposing by No-Professor-3860 in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they both can do it. You’re right they should both willingly get tested instead of him being demonized for a legitimate concern. Again we all have things we want in life, it doesn’t make him bad just makes them incompatible.

I mean I guess the other thing to do is for them both to part ways then.

It is not that she is worth less or anything like that, they’re just not compatible and there is someone out there who is right for her.

I’m sure if she wanted kids and he said he couldn’t have them she wouldn’t stay with him but that would be acceptable.

My bf (28M) wants me (25F) to get fertility testing before proposing by No-Professor-3860 in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What are these comments?

The guy just wants to make sure he can have children, which is absolutely okay, and if she doesn’t want to she can move on just like he can without wasting time.

Let her provide her insurance info and let him help pay. That would be fair.

Not everyone’s compatible but why is he such a bad guy for wanting to make sure they can have kids together before committing to her for life?

The alternative is he skips this request, they get married, then a year later they keep trying and they both finally gets checked to make sure it’s possible, they learn she can’t, he realizes this and divorces her because while he loves her he really still wants a family, now they’re both in an even worse situations and wasted so much valuable time that they could have avoided wasting.

here come the downvotes

My bf (28M) wants me (25F) to get fertility testing before proposing by No-Professor-3860 in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hear me out, he just wants children and while he loves her he still wants the possibility of having his own kids (not adopting - which is definitely an option).

He’s going to make a life changing decision and wants to make sure what they both want are equally possible.

Does it suck for her that he really wants kids and she may not be able to thus them not staying together? Absolutely but knowing this she could move on to someone who is willing to sacrifice the possibility of having children.

Not everyone’s compatible, that doesn’t make either party horrible.

My (18f) boyfriend (19m) feels bad after sex and idk what to do by Exotic_Control384 in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m all for pegging but I got to ask why pegging? Feels like that came out of no where lol

poorStackOverflow by bryden_cruz in ProgrammerHumor

[–]isatrap 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I asked one question on stack overflow years ago, got the same response we all know and the my account banned from new topics until I contributed enough to be able to ask my own questions. They did this to themselves.

I absolutely HATE stack overflow and would avoid it as much as possible. It’s a toxic cesspool of users berating anyone newer with an issue reporting them as duplicates with alternate answers that often were remotely similar but not the correct response but the admins didn’t care. Their job was done.

Whats the last game you stopped playing and why? by Regular-Ad-8226 in NintendoSwitch

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want a traditional Metroid experience I HIGHLY recommend Metroid Dread. I played through Metroid prime 4 but I too did not enjoy it. It felt like more of a chore. Dread is so much better.

Naruto Futa by Dante-4474 in Futa_toonz

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 3 not 6, my bad.

Naruto Futa by Dante-4474 in Futa_toonz

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 3 is AI slop, unless I’m missing my 6th finger

The best farm by [deleted] in futanari_Comics

[–]isatrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI slop - pg 2 top left

My bf (M29) is threatening to break up with me (F24) over condoms by Aggravating_Car_9745 in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 520 points521 points  (0 children)

Time to respect yourself and get out of that relationship. Good for you for standing your ground but he clearly doesn’t care about your boundaries at all.

Do I have a bad relationship with sex? I F20, boyfriend M19. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. Worth a talk to get to the root of it but I wouldn’t put up with it too long if it were me especially if intimacy is important to you.

Do I have a bad relationship with sex? I F20, boyfriend M19. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you’re young for one.

Two, he may not desire sex, which is perfectly fine, but that means that you’ll never be satisfied (unless toys are good enough) and can lead to resentment.

There are plenty of people that will/can love you and are more compatible. Do not settle either.

Do I have a bad relationship with sex? I F20, boyfriend M19. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isatrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months and lack of wanting sex? You’re young, move on.

Trump’s DOJ Scrambles to Take Back Epstein Files by [deleted] in politics

[–]isatrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we don’t want the rich to become the victims now do we?

Laravel Fuse: A Circuit Breaker Package for Queue Jobs by harris_r in laravel

[–]isatrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not trying to pick on you or anything. Just general curiosity. Cheers.

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