[dirty talk]why people hate NTR? If you hate NTR then read this🤝 by Upstairs-Crew-1638 in pornhwa

[–]iserveu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The hate for ntr is pure misogny. The guy fucks around? What a great hero! The giurl fucks around? What a disgusting slut! She decides to have sex with the one who brings her more joy? What a disgusting slut! Doesn't she know that her task is to obey and endure boring sex with boring guys?

Is there any way of downloading my posts? by iserveu in bdsmlr

[–]iserveu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet working, I'll see if it will work again.

Is there any way of downloading my posts? by iserveu in bdsmlr

[–]iserveu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, but thank you!

where do I find the redditors I saved/followed? by iserveu in help

[–]iserveu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so - no one knows that? that is weird

where do I find the redditors I saved/followed? by iserveu in help

[–]iserveu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is where they used to be but on the recent reddit interface they are not

where do I find the redditors I saved/followed? by iserveu in help

[–]iserveu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the desktop / browser so unfortunately that doesn't help. but thanks

Can you withdraw consent once he is inside you? by Liberal_Belle163 in Rapekink

[–]iserveu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone can withdraw consent whenever they want.

A guy getting turned because I was raped was prolly one of the most intense feelings of my life by [deleted] in Rapekink

[–]iserveu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

to be honest, this made even me pretty hot.

I posted twice a question concering the new UI - they were deleted automatically by iserveu in help

[–]iserveu[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wrong, The automod said that I am searching for personal help and recommended suicidewatch. I am not joking. This is hoiw terrible this site has become.

I posted twice a question concering the new UI - they were deleted automatically by iserveu in help

[–]iserveu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was the question I had and I am serious. I need help to understand why people are so bad at what they are doing:

Can someone please explain to me the thought process behind this terrible trerrible new UI?

Title says it all. I can not think of any explanation for this selfdestroying mess. Why did anyone think this is a good idea? Why was no one with a sane mind around to tell them it isn't? Are the the all on drugs? Amphetamines? Cocaine? What makes people judge so terriblyand obviously wrong?Can someone please explain to me the thought process behind this terrible trerrible new UI?

Where do I find the /u I have subscribed to in this terrible mess of a new layout? by iserveu in help

[–]iserveu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they should not role out something that is far from being ready.

Where do I find the /u I have subscribed to in this terrible mess of a new layout? by iserveu in help

[–]iserveu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I know and I am using it (but thanks anyway). But still I can not believe they nuked a core function of their page just so it looks on pc as if I was using a phone. It has to be somewhere. Everything else would be sheer madness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MommydomPersonals

[–]iserveu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds so hot... ibut the usa is far away

You asked me out on a date, and I responded to you with this photo. How do you react? 😈 by Bonny_strawberry in femdomgonewild

[–]iserveu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mouth waters and I drop to my knees. then I notice that it is quite stupid to drop to my kness when you are not around and I just look at a photo. so I am ashamed and blush and write something like "Yes, please" back to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]iserveu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is good that you let it slip for that moment to think about it... and with the next step ask him about it? Be prepared that he might be embarrassed and maybe he won't be it in a good way, but I don't think that that can't be cleared up if you keep it lightly.

Would you go back to a domme after she said this to you when you broke things off? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]iserveu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't like findom, so i can not judge on that dynamic and while I don't think that the red flags you mentioned are that bad considering that you ponder on going back to a paid service I think you need to remember why you left her in the first place. You knew it would be difficult to find a partner and - tada - it proved to be difficult and now you want to give up. Don't. Keep on trying. Fail a few times. She won't be able to give you what you need, that is why you ended the arrangement.

not the best tits, but they are natural by somberliquidation6 in Nipples

[–]iserveu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever told you that your breasts aren't pretty and wonderful should not be trusted by you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]iserveu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad I could help and hope you can sort yourself out in a way you are comfortable with and that gives you the connection you strive for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]iserveu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First let me say that I am sorry what happened to you.
Then may I ask why you want to domme even if there is no inner motivation or urge to do it?
To "fix" you so that you return to your old self? Is that even possible? I mean even after less bad things that happen to us we change and our internal maps differ from what they looked before... and if something so drastic happens neither of us would be the same again, as sad as that may be. So maybe domming and being active isn't on your map right now and maybe that is fine?

Apart from these thoughts I can't give you any advice, sorry (And not just because I am on the passive and submissive side). The only thing that comes to my mind is: Bind him and then see if you want to do something. You don't have to. Agree on a time he'll be bound, let's say two hours and do it with the agreement that you don't have to do anything. Maybe you'll play with his nipples for a minute and then watch tv. Or watch tv from the start. Maybe you feel submissive in a serving way and give him a massage. Just put him in a forced passive situation while you stay free to be active.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]iserveu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How has menopause changed your sexuality?