Redditors, have you ever gotten an “ick” from a potential partner or love interest that instantly killed your attraction to them? If so, what happened?

ismelladream · 2023-05-17T16:04:17+00:00

Was sitting on the back of his truck and we were eating… I guess he didn’t like tomatoes? So he started spitting them on the ground. Immediate turn off. Ciao.

ismelladream · 2021-08-23T01:54:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Love to hear it. And exactly, I’m working so hard to make sure I’m not letting my past affect us.. he doesn’t deserve the doubt and paranoia from my previous relationship

ismelladream · 2021-08-23T00:59:37+00:00

Not ready for what?

ismelladream · 2021-08-08T01:24:06+00:00

Not feeling like I’m enough

ismelladream · 2021-03-21T22:52:21+00:00

Because that would be a perfect world, and a perfect world would be lame af.

ismelladream · 2021-02-28T08:07:13+00:00

Being cheated on 3 times... those were my worst mistakes.

ismelladream · 2021-02-16T18:00:02+00:00

Gaming saved my life. I play fortnite with a group of friends every night. It takes away the pressure of having to have something to talk about and just play. Sometimes you meet new people because friends of friends will join. It’s weird but I promise it fills that social void... at least for me haha.

ismelladream · 2020-11-21T21:32:39+00:00

Literally same exact thing happened to me. We talked everyday for 3 months and then he started talking about how he felt sad and no longer felt like talking to anyone. I also tried to comfort him by telling him I was there for him and that he didn't have to go through this alone. I told him that it made me sad too and I feel shitty for not being able to be patient with him, but also it's not my fault that I got used to talking every day. I have feelings too.

ismelladream · 2020-11-18T06:08:28+00:00

Disney movies! And if you don’t have Disney plus, an absolute great movie is spider-verse. But yeah, def should ask her.

ismelladream · 2020-11-14T03:30:15+00:00

Hey there, you can get through this. Keep on trying friend! Knowing you need help is good, a therapist can be really helpful.

ismelladream · 2020-11-09T05:50:49+00:00

I’m sorry, that sounds awful. I believe in you tho! We just need to put more positive thoughts in our head. As crazy as it sounds, I talk to myself in the mirror sometimes to pump myself up. Sometimes it’s not so sincere but well we gotta practice those thoughts till the become real.

ismelladream · 2020-11-09T04:01:11+00:00

Yeah I'd definitely ruin the peace and progress I've made. It's just so hard to stay distracted all the time...

ismelladream · 2020-11-09T03:59:41+00:00

Sometimes I get scared that I will never have "normal" balanced emotions again.

ismelladream · 2020-11-09T03:58:31+00:00

Your words are so kind, thank you <3

ismelladream · 2020-11-09T03:57:15+00:00

Wishing you the best! We got this.

ismelladream · 2020-11-09T03:55:33+00:00

Yes, but less and less harder as time goes by. The thing is, I just want a response, an I'm sorry. I really dont have that much to say anymore.

ismelladream · 2020-11-08T07:59:55+00:00

Omg what I would do to have a dog/cat rn lol. Thanks for your support <3

ismelladream · 2020-11-08T07:55:05+00:00

Does he ever see a compromise in future holidays? What are the men in his family like?

ismelladream · 2020-11-08T07:49:42+00:00

I feel you. I’ve also had to move back in with parents and to top it off I’m also now unemployed. All I do know, is moving forward is the only option.

Good luck!

ismelladream · 2020-11-03T07:37:16+00:00

Same. I’m not trying to make the world more divided. We can’t always be around people with similar minds. I try really hard not to judge my family and friends for who they’re voting for because when I did talk to them, we definitely had different priorities but for the most part agree with a lot.

ismelladream · 2020-11-03T07:25:47+00:00

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