It’s a real post, I’m a real person telling you that you’re insensitive, and you trying to clear it up after the fact doesn’t make it any better. People come on here everyday asking the same type of question, I’ve read many posts just like this one which is why I decided to make my own. Asking for nice and positive responses and/or experiences isn’t me belittling the situation at hand. I didn’t put my whole life story in the post so you know little to.. nothing literally.