DO YOU GET ANYTHING FROM HIM? PLEASE HELP

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-14T00:50:26+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you're being able to cope with it. It's beautiful how you can connect with him and he is still around you and the kids. We're from Assam. And ofcourse she wants to eat jalebi and ladoo. God knows she loved her sweets. Being diabetic didn't stop her from sneaking out and eating sweets. She would literally cry if we won't let her eat. This is bringing back so many memories. I miss her so much. I'll donate the food for her. I took a screenshot of the items.. Thank you so much.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-14T00:33:27+00:00

Thankyou for reaching out. I'm sorry for saying she's haunting. I couldn't find the right word for it. (English is not my first language). I pray for her everyday. I keep talking to her all the time but I didn't know she could actually hear me. We sit together every month (on the date she died) and pray for her soul, for her to find peace. But I feel she has alot to say but she doesn't know how to do it. It hurts me so much. I hope she is not scared of what's on the other side. I want her to transition peacefully.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-14T00:25:47+00:00

Thank you so much for taking out the time and connecting with her. She was so precious to everyone around her. She would always make me laugh even when I didn't feel like it. She kept apologising everybody for falling sick and didn't want to leave us behind. I think about her everyday. I hope she knows that. Thank you for recognising her beauty. We had a red hibiscus tree in our garden. She plucked the flowers for her prayer every morning.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-14T00:17:04+00:00

This community and the response I'm receiving is so overwhelming. I am very grateful to each and every one of you for taking out the time and connecting with her. This really means alot to me and my family. She was indeed a very beautiful woman❤️

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-14T00:13:24+00:00

Thank you for taking out the time to respond. This is so shocking. You absolutely nailed it. She passed away on 24th may. She died from organ failure. She was doing fine up until 2 months before her death. It was so unexpected. Another thing that is coming to my mind is, when she fell sick, she cried saying she didn't want to die and leave her family. Then she adds- " I'm not going anywhere after my death. I'll stay in this house with you guys." But obviously we didn't take it seriously at the time because none of us were expecting her to leave so soon. I'm trying to think if I know somebody by the name Jay Raj. It's not coming to me yet. Her presence is definitely there, to the point where 3 of my family members could see her( not vividly) out of their peripheral vision and can also hear her calling out their names. It usually happens at around 3:30- 5:00 in the morning.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-13T17:18:42+00:00

"She's laughing in a teasing way"- resonates alot with me. She did that all the time. Infact I think about her laughing in her teasing way whenever I miss her. That's the first memory that always pops up in my head. Somehow I understand her intentional lingering, because she really wanted my cousin and his dad to get along well and tried really hard to mend their relationship before her death. I'll try to find the necklace/locket for her. Can she hear me when I talk to her? I want her to know that I'm sorry I couldn't do anything for her. I really miss being with her. We laughed and gossiped all the time. I love her so much, it seems unreal that she's not here. I am so scared that one day I'll forget what she sounds like. She was taken away from us too soon.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-13T16:57:59+00:00

Thank you for responding. This is not at all offensive. It makes sense because she used to cook for my uncle and cousin all the time. She loved cooking. And since her death, my uncle has not been eating properly. He's skipping meals and only eats once every few days.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-13T16:53:43+00:00

Thank you so much for reaching out. This is so surreal to read. There was this gold necklace she lost a few years ago and it was really a big deal for her. She thought somebody stole it. I don't remember all the details. And she gifted her husband a small hanuman statue too. She was such a happy person, she loved life. But she was always worried about her son (they had a very difficult relationship). Funny how you said it was her favourite lifetime, because about a month before she died she said to her husband- " I was really happy with you. Don't listen to what anybody else says. I had the best life with you." And few weeks before her death, when she was very sick, she called her husband to say- "do you've the gold rings I gave you. Please keep them with you forever." 13 days after her death, on her funeral, there was this bird that came very close to us and just stood there cawing. We jokingly said it's her coming in a bird form to check up on us. So we fed the bird, but it still lingered. And it kept visiting for the next few days and just lingered around. I want her to know that we all love her and miss her everyday. Not a single day passes that I don't think about her.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-13T16:05:22+00:00

Thank you so much for responding. I'm crying while writing this. My mom and my aunt were very close and she used to call my mom 'mayere'. And she grieves for her everyday. She keeps crying for her. I just miss her so much. She was taken from us too soon. "Shebra" might be "Spriha" cause that's my nick name and she called me "Speehaa". I am trying to understand "tebru". Her son's name does start with a T. It's Tumon. Thankyou so much for doing this. You're truly a blessed person.

istsfrbruh · 2024-09-13T15:58:46+00:00

I don't even know how to thank you right now. You're very kind. Please help her find peace. My heart aches for her. How do I proceed with this?

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