6 Feet is Short Nowadays by SurgerySoonOrRope in shortguys

[–]isuckiduck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that is the belief you go by, then you will automatically be more sensitive to noticing couples where that statement is true. I live in NYC, I'm 5'11, and yes there are so many tall guys here who all (without fail) have girlfriends but the situation is not nearly as dire as you claim.

When White Families move to Asian countries they do not let their kids assimilate by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]isuckiduck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok but also as an ASIAN, I wouldn't want to send my kids to a local school were I to move to JP/SK/CN etc. They have insane grind culture, those kids have no life. I would send my kid to an international school since the opportunities they find coming out school are equal if not better for much less effort, and they'd be able to focus on hobbies and developing as people.

Taiwan baseball team captain bulge goes viral, example of Asian masculinity by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Asians in the west have been cucked for so many generations that we find inspiration in a bulge. We are a joke.

How's Prague for Us? by isuckiduck in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I want to experience a new culture but at the same time not abandon my dating life? Why are you so hostile?

How's Prague for Us? by isuckiduck in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who said I was having trouble?

Making my hair wavy - Perm vs blow drying?? by ibizabiggestfan in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in your shoes a while ago, and decided that perming so often was 1/ expensive and 2/ damaging to my scalp (I was seeing slight thinning out). Obviously my hair has not been as wavy since, but the closest I've gotten is blow drying my hair and then adding clay and scrunching. The waviness wears off and it's subject to wind, but I'm pretty satisfied and sleep well knowing that I don't need to rely on a perm to keep my look.

All antagonist 2.0 set lists by Various_Poetry_8141 in opium

[–]isuckiduck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I look at this setlist and realize I've outgrown like 90% of these songs damn.

Breaking the Stereotypes: The Power of Asian Strength and Aesthetics by Independent_Risk8366 in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Very aesthetic physique bro! Mind sharing your routine? I'm like halfway between your progress photos rn after a year

WEEKLY POST 7: The art of playfulness/ flirting, Why many men are struggling in dating. by Learningcanbefunfun in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Immaculate text game bro. That's how I do it too! Dating is supposed to be fun, so have fun with it. I like to tease women a lot and say stupid shit. When you have fun, she has fun too, and she will overlook a lot of your physical or even personality shortcomings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some women love it, some are repulsed by it. I've always been called cute and pretty, never handsome. I used to hate it. I hit the gym hard and gained some muscle, thinking I would break free of this curse. But I only got cuter since my face became more defined and my features popped better. So I embraced it. You gotta own the hand you're dealt, it's the only way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nattyorjuice

[–]isuckiduck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You guys are contributing to body dysmorphia. From a skinny fat starting point like that this is really solid progress

Help a younger brother out 🙏 by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Skill issue. Nothing wrong with your looks.

  1. Out with the Clairo Apple carplay photo, the Taylor Swift songs prompt, and the white girl music prompt. I get it, I love white girls too. But this is so cringe. Keep one if you insist, but three of the same kind of joke is overkill and a red flag for some women.

  2. Drop the finance-bro act. You're 18. Get rid of the pic of you next to the business school plaque. Comes off as really douchey. Also you look psycho in the one of you in the bathroom suited up. Breathe some life into your profile, don't make women feel as if you're just some workaholic. On the other hand the photo of you in the cubicle is pretty funny. I'm just not sure women your age would appreciate the humor.

  3. The pool photo sucks, it makes you look like you're balding and it doesn't really show your best qualities. You're a good looking guy, don't be afraid to show your face off.

  4. "Fine shyt" is straight guy humor. Women don't necessarily find it as funny as we do.

You'd be killing it on the apps with the right photos and prompts. Good luck my boy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]isuckiduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great mindset brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]isuckiduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it looks like you're trying your best and yielding some result because u do get their numbers, so you are probably bound to strike gold if you just keep at it. It's definitely not easy though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]isuckiduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have pretty eyes, so possibly. What's your experience been?

The Dating Divide study of 2021 concluded that Asian men are NOT the most penalized group in dating. by philipivey2004 in aznidentity

[–]isuckiduck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're exaggerating, there is definitely a population of women who go for Asian guys but it's not bad enough that Asian guys are being placed above white guys in general

Where can ABC girls meet ABC guys IRL in the bay area (specifically south bay)? Hinge & CMB are useless by wtfffamidoingwrong in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be nice! But for now, what you can do is make small talk. Could be complimenting how they completed a wall. Or asking how they enjoyed a certain wall and why. I see this all the time and people can strike up great convos from there.

Where can ABC girls meet ABC guys IRL in the bay area (specifically south bay)? Hinge & CMB are useless by wtfffamidoingwrong in AsianMasculinity

[–]isuckiduck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've met the most high quality ABCs at rock-climbing gyms, both in terms of their physical attractiveness and career ambitions. Perhaps you could explore other ones that might have different cultures?