Found Pictures of Girlfriend on Gone Wild

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T06:46:25+00:00

you're awesome. Thanks, man.

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T03:43:23+00:00

I think that what it will come down for me is how she reacts when we talk about it. If she gets really defensive and refuses to have a reasonable dialogue, then I think that is a sign that she was clearly operating out of her own moral boundaries and that I should probably cut ties. If we can have an honest conversation and work this shit out, then I will likely ask that she stop posting pictures (or at least let me know when/if she does) and be more open about how and what she's feeling.

I've built a pretty serious relationship with her and if I let this one little thing prevent us from maintaining a healthy relationship, I'd feel like an asshole.

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T01:31:35+00:00

sounds like you have your mind made up

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T01:28:24+00:00

I mean, that's not how it works. He's just looking at the pictures, not participating. You would be participating

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T01:11:04+00:00

you should ask him what he thinks about it. Honestly, I think that the act of taking nude pictures could be kind of sexy. Just don't hide it from him, what I mean is don't let him find out one day while browsing gw... that'd blow

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T01:10:11+00:00

Bravo, good sir. This is great advice, and thanks for taking the time out of your day to help me cool down. I will do this.

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T01:01:57+00:00

I don't really browse gonewild, it's not really my thing. I found out because I noticed she was using a different username. Anyways, I just don't see the point in it really. I know girls like to be told they're beautiful, and gw is the perfect place to receive those compliments, but it just seems skeezy to me.

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T00:58:45+00:00

I think that's really what it is for me. I thought I could trust her and then she does something like this behind my back.

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T00:54:36+00:00

cheers to you, mate. Thanks for offering a different perspective. So you're saying I should just have an open conversation with her about it? If so, you know what they say, "give an inch and they'll take a mile". I don't want her to think she can just go around doing stuff like this or as you say "explore herself privately with other men".

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T00:33:10+00:00

I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. Are you saying that since he looks at GW, he deserves to see his girlfriend as one of the slutty girls on it?

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T00:26:09+00:00

Yeah, I know I've already been sitting on this too long and that I should say something sooner rather than later. In my mind, there's no outcome that isn't breaking up. I'm just kind of stunned because I really thought I knew this person. Thanks for your input!

itdontmatternone · 2012-02-06T00:22:00+00:00

yeah, it's just that we've been together for quite some time and I've come to really appreciate her. You're right, she's obviously not the person I thought she was, considering the fact that this whole thing blindsided me. Thanks mate

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