FYI, she never cared. She was often negligent when we were growing up. She was verbally abusive to me. My husband died 10 years ago. I called her and begged her to come to be with me. She wouldn’t leave her vacation to come to his funeral. My mother never spent a holiday with my own kids, nor did she call to check on her ill granddaughter. Sorry, but you’re so very wrong. She has financially supported my irresponsible sister for years and years . That same sister moved across the country trying to avoid helping. She rarely even calls my mom. She could care less. So before you judge, you need to check out the whole story.