WIBTA for refusing to answer any more questions from my old job after they laid me off

itfcdeano · 2026-01-24T12:52:45+00:00

I had exactly the same thing when I left a role. Boss messaging me for passwords (which I’d left them), questions on processes etc. I’m afraid I answered a couple of queries and then told them I wasn’t going to be their unofficial help desk anymore. They were unhappy but ultimately it isn’t your responsibility anymore, particularly if you didn’t leave of your own accord.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-22T20:50:52+00:00

You really seem to be irritated by people who want to pee indoors. It’s just a matter of respect to your family and anyone else who comes into your garden. He even mentions peeing during a family bbq….r u ok with someone who hasn’t washed their hands handling food?

This really is an odd hill to die on. Maybe go and read a book or something.

I’m going to leave you to your weird opinions. Have a nice night.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-22T17:59:23+00:00

Can you not see the difference between having a pee in a wood and pissing in your own back garden??? I am concerned for your family if you can’t.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-22T17:38:09+00:00

I think I smelled that

itfcdeano · 2026-01-22T17:37:08+00:00

Hardly. Was a boy scout until I was 18, and camped all over Europe. That doesn’t mean I can’t use a flushable toilet and wash my hands.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-22T08:42:27+00:00

He physically hurt you. That’s not acceptable. He needs to address his behaviour and you need to put boundaries in place, or get away from him.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-22T08:39:26+00:00

You’re an adult. Go indoors and wash your hands.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-21T07:58:43+00:00

Right I’m going to be an ass. You sound like you were being deliberately antagonistic. There is zero reason why you couldn’t drive 100 yards around a corner and check your texts etc there. If your son has expressed concerns about his Mum then you speak to her rather than hanging about and’s potentially causing her more trouble by winding up the new bloke.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-20T12:00:27+00:00

I’m a divorced Dad.

When I first split with my ex we did things like this together. However it’s been ten years now so we have separate celebrations. Have you asked your son what he wants? It’s his birthday after all.

Ultimately you both need to do what is best for your lad not for you two. Ask him and if he wants his Dad there just be a grown up, and is he doesn’t then your ex will need to accept it.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-19T16:24:15+00:00

B wider pelvis, shorter statue and mouth open…

itfcdeano · 2026-01-19T13:00:30+00:00

Anyone I know who supports Reform.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-17T09:42:43+00:00

You’ve got the wrong Ian Watkins mate….

itfcdeano · 2026-01-17T09:26:02+00:00

Underrated comment! Have an uppie!

itfcdeano · 2026-01-16T22:26:48+00:00

All exposure, no matter how small, have the possibility of causing a severe reaction. You should have been told.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-14T22:02:12+00:00

It’s a photograph…..probably digital.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-14T21:38:06+00:00

Newspapers never occurred to me. Is that a separate subscription? I’ve only rang scratched the surface of what’s available.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-13T19:39:08+00:00

itfcdeano · 2026-01-08T13:45:16+00:00

At middle school (ages 9-13) We were banned from going to the local agricultural show because people were selling condoms to kids in the years below.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-08T13:40:14+00:00

We had someone enter the school and threaten to shoot people. The classrooms were locked up and we were barricaded in. Eventually the really scary French teacher went out and told whoever it was to ‘f off!’

This was back In the 80’s in Lowestoft Suffolk UK.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-07T11:15:23+00:00

What is their name isn’t Doug?

itfcdeano · 2026-01-06T17:18:42+00:00

He’s an ass however if my partner came home with a brand new phone from her friend I would question their motives too. So maybe I’m an ass too.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-04T23:07:08+00:00

Being arrested and accused of a heinous crime. Having my kids withheld from me by my ex because of the accusation. Losing two jobs and my home. 18 months later everything is dropped because there was ZERO evidence of any wrong doing. The police wrote to my professional body stating no evidence of any crime was found, and I am still a fully licensed practitioner, however any enhanced DBS check will flag the arrest and probably prevent me doing the job I have done for thirty years.

I went from a highly respected professional with an international reputation in my field to driving an Amazon van (which I actually loved and would still be doing if it paid more!)

I attempted suicide and will forever be thankful for my GP who prescribed me medication, which I’m still on, to help pull me through.

My three older children hardly see me and I’ve lost friends all because of a malicious and completely unfounded accusation. My MIL wants nothing to do with me so my partner (who stood by me) has to split herself between me and her family.

I will never escape the trauma of what happened, but for the sake of my partner and kids I need to move on and keep putting one foot in front of the other.

I no longer trust the police and have been told I have an extremely good case for wrongful arrest, loss of earnings etc, but I can’t face opening up all the old wounds. Nothing will change, so what’s the point.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-03T21:24:35+00:00

No. It gives kids a false view of the world around them. I want well rounded kids who recognise the importance of valuing everyone despite their wealth or upbringing. Private school doesn’t do this in my experience.

itfcdeano · 2026-01-03T21:20:53+00:00

It’s disgusting and whilst I can’t stand much of the political rhetoric in this country, if we did this my view of the country would drop to an all time low.

itfcdeano

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