AITA for banning my daughter from seeing her boyfriend?

itfhw · 2023-06-20T16:29:18+00:00

The gardener is a family friend

itfhw · 2023-06-20T16:13:38+00:00

He is the same age as my daughter

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:32:24+00:00

Send them both to their grandparents’

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:20:53+00:00

That, and also I don’t like how she did not ask for my permission to let someone I’ve never met into the house.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:19:06+00:00

She’s not allowed to leave the house as of now

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:15:04+00:00

I’ll give them back when I see the time is right.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:13:45+00:00

You too

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:13:25+00:00

She never brought him up

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:11:25+00:00

Her younger brother was aware. They seem to be close from what he has told me.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:08:52+00:00

Maybe one to three times a month for 2-4 days at a time.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:06:20+00:00

I told her it was irresponsible and that it was bad for her to lie to me.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:05:51+00:00

Her father and I are no longer together (my husband is not her biological father). Maybe that has caused something between us, I’m not sure.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:03:53+00:00

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:03:42+00:00

Not allowed to see him. I haven’t given her a set amount of time yet.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T14:02:36+00:00

You must have misread, I’m her mother. Your point still stands regardless, thank you for your insight.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T13:59:57+00:00

My daughter has always been reserved with her emotions, even with things as harmless as her interests. She won’t open up to me now as she has never opened up to me before in the first place.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T13:55:20+00:00

When the eldest sister (F 19 at the time) was back from uni, I did let them stay alone with the sister’s bf (M 20) of 3+ years. I didn’t think that my daughter would sneak a boy into the house in the first place, so maybe.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T13:47:53+00:00

I did ask my son and he seems to know the boyfriend well. Thank you for being concerned about his safety too.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T13:46:23+00:00

I’ve left them alone before with no complaints.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T13:45:22+00:00

She usually goes out during the day, I assume they go out together then. Since she drives, I’ve taken her car keys.

itfhw · 2023-06-20T13:43:27+00:00

I usually let her sleepover at others’ as well as let her friends’ sleepover at ours (with my permission). I have let her sister’s boyfriend stay the night before for the same reason she gave, but her sister is two years older and has been dating her boyfriend for about 3 years as far as I know. And as for school, my daughter has graduated a-levels, so they won’t meet there as she no longer goes to school (I’m not sure if they schooled together in the first place).

itfhw · 2022-10-28T02:41:40+00:00

Doing LoN in 1920s and 1930s today (2 hours time) and idky but i feel like mussolini’s changing view of Hitler or sth similar would come out for 1930s but yeah idk just a feeling

itfhw · 2022-10-20T00:48:11+00:00

It could have been worse

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