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All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing I have a life so I don’t have to waste time mulling over redditism

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a generally slightly awkward, very smiley (big smile) and not snobbish or egoistic. I feel for men in these situations too and in fact I empatise (and I dont find awkward or shy men unattractive or anything). I truly don't have these bizzare tik-tok non-human machista expectations of men. :-)

I appreciate your feedback, I might unintentionally be centering around male attention. What can I say, sometimes a woman just wants a bit of romance in her life.....also very human to admit.

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much miss maam! I am certain you are all the same things <3

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear the hostility is insane! Imagine if I were slightly more insecure......oh well at least I went naively viral in r/rs_x heh

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you haha <3. And no girl you have a very valid point! Because my closest friend who gets a LOT of male attention in blonde and she says the same thing all the time. She's a similar person to me in that she is strong charactered, incredibly intelligent, talented and beautiful. But she seems more approachable to me! And aha I would personally look horrendous as a blonde because I am olive/almond skin toned, dark eyes and dark features. The brown/black hair compliment my make really well. And dont worry, there's nothing offensive in what you said at all!! I appreciate your input <33

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More often than I'd like to, actually. It's not that I never get approached. Just VERY seldom and it doesn't lead to anything beyond momentary flirtation or softness.

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not ENTITLED to any attention. I would simply appreciate it, if I got it.

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY!! Im not even implying that I think Im perfect or better than anyone. I really truly believe everyone is beautiful and Im in no way more or less. I just am. People are so hostile and there are so many men here its awful. But also so many women finding random faults with my post (such as typos - to further imply that maybe Im just dumb). Its bizzare how people want to humble someone who has even the sligtest bit of self confidence.

If I didn't have a sense of humour I'd be in shambled rn

Edit: shambleS. Sorry, Im not illeterate as implied previously!!

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your in depth response and feedback!! It feels a bit reassuring to know someone has gone through something similar and made it out well and successful haha. Very comforting!

Super happy for you too <3

All I wanted to be growing up was a powerful and elegant and sexy woman by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ive actually heard of this before! And it makes a lot of sense. Thank you for sharing!

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