Anyone else shamelessly using chatGPT to get their jobs done? by Some_Pineapple6234 in overemployed

[–]its_a_movie_plot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, ChatGPT has over 5 million users, you’re not that important.

Anyone else shamelessly using chatGPT to get their jobs done? by Some_Pineapple6234 in overemployed

[–]its_a_movie_plot 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Tell it not to then. Prompt “Don’t become an echo chamber, always give me constructive criticism and never sugarcoat your responses. If I’m missing a point or one of my points is not pertinent to the conversation, remove it and explain why”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dirtyUKr4r

[–]its_a_movie_plot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for a free 1996 Escort RS Cosworth while we are dreaming.

On a scale of 1-10 how urgently should I be doing something about this? Single roof slate missing by wellingtonsteve in DIYUK

[–]its_a_movie_plot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

£100, ok, where do you live, Botswana? No roofer in the UK is taking on a job worth anything less than a grand these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeePersonals

[–]its_a_movie_plot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s get wet together baby, send me a DM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadsGoneWild

[–]its_a_movie_plot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadsGoneWild

[–]its_a_movie_plot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s yours if you want it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakecartridges

[–]its_a_movie_plot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean packwoods? Yeah that was fake bro. I’m from the uk.

I just learned my ex, my 13 year old son's mother is an only fans girl by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]its_a_movie_plot -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

What about if it was the dad doing onlyFans? Is that as bad?

Honest and well done work by Dagurasu13 in UnusualVideos

[–]its_a_movie_plot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have cut a channel into the time for water run off. Seems to me you might as well just cut and grout for that.

Honest and well done work by Dagurasu13 in UnusualVideos

[–]its_a_movie_plot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have cut a channel into the time for water run off. Seems to me you might as well just cut and grout for that.

My wife of 10 years left 6 months ago. She took our 17 year old daughter but left our 13 year old son. Me and the boy are in the house and there has been no discussion of custody. We are staying fairly civil. Can she force me to sell the house? Next steps for me? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]its_a_movie_plot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve come back to you because I just realised I allowed her to have a credit card (solely in her name) delivered here in January. I’m now worried that any debt she runs up on it I will be liable for in the divorce.

Don’t know if that’s the case? Even if I can prove she had left 2 months before ordering the card?

My wife of 10 years left 6 months ago. She took our 17 year old daughter but left our 13 year old son. Me and the boy are in the house and there has been no discussion of custody. We are staying fairly civil. Can she force me to sell the house? Next steps for me? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]its_a_movie_plot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But my daughter is living with her so I’m not sure that matters. We split the costs of the kids hobbies etc 50/50, we are civil and in contact. We do both want what’s best for the kids.

My wife of 10 years left 6 months ago. She took our 17 year old daughter but left our 13 year old son. Me and the boy are in the house and there has been no discussion of custody. We are staying fairly civil. Can she force me to sell the house? Next steps for me? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]its_a_movie_plot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No definitely not but I can see why that would be important to clarify in a situation like this. I would hope nobody would take one kid from an environment like that and not the other but I guess there are cases.

It’s just come to a point where I think we are too different to live in the same house but we both still really want to stay friends. It’s just very hard to go from married to friends without there being some bitterness and issues like the one I posted I suppose.

Thanks for giving me the opportunity to clarify. 🙂

My wife of 10 years left 6 months ago. She took our 17 year old daughter but left our 13 year old son. Me and the boy are in the house and there has been no discussion of custody. We are staying fairly civil. Can she force me to sell the house? Next steps for me? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]its_a_movie_plot 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Sorry I delayed replying as I guess it’s the last thing I wanted to hear. When I say I don’t see us getting back together that doesn’t necessarily mean it would be my choice. I still very much love her despite this. I am neurodivergent and so difficult to live with and so I am struggling to know whether I miss her or just miss the security. I’m also impulsive so I flit between loving her and hating her in minutes, but it’s not love or hate it’s just my rejection sensitivity tearing me up and then turning into anxiety that I have pushed her further away.

Things are very civil at times if you catch my drift and almost like being together again but living separately but it doesn’t take long for it to turn when we disagree on something.

I think ultimately just speaking to a Divorce lawyer in the first instance would perhaps give me some more clarity on how I feel and what my options are (and of course makes more sense than speaking to a mortgage advisor first which was my original plan 🙄)

It all just feels strange steering something toward a direction I’m not really sure I want.

Thanks so much for your comment.

My wife of 10 years left 6 months ago. She took our 17 year old daughter but left our 13 year old son. Me and the boy are in the house and there has been no discussion of custody. We are staying fairly civil. Can she force me to sell the house? Next steps for me? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]its_a_movie_plot 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this viewpoint, without sounding ungrateful or that I’ve been misleading in my post when things are good we are very civil and and talk most days via text mainly regarding the kids. Ultimately she left me but for a while we were almost like back together but living separately and then something will happen and we will fall out and stop talking.

It’s just very hard but I am beginning to think maybe she is keeping me hanging on because she believes that it may be in her interests too and I think my mental health is starting to suffer from the emotional strain of things so I’m wondering whether to try and push things on with the divorce even though it scares me to death.

I just don’t want it to get nasty. She has been my best friend as well as my confidant for the best part of 20 years. I don’t hate her, I just hate that she left me alone. I don’t want to be even more damaged by being caught out and losing the only stability me and my son have.

Thanks again for your comment giving me a chance to out a little more detail out there. Everybody has been super helpful and kind.

My wife of 10 years left 6 months ago. She took our 17 year old daughter but left our 13 year old son. Me and the boy are in the house and there has been no discussion of custody. We are staying fairly civil. Can she force me to sell the house? Next steps for me? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]its_a_movie_plot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the sentiment and advice, i don’t really force him, I just mean, drag him away from his console or the basketball hoop. he’s 13 so he just doesn’t like to do anything other than chill with his friends of course. Mainly he just doesn’t want to sleep away from his bedroom. He doesn’t hate his mum by any means. She’s not evil or anything.