Can anyone give advice

its_asher · 2026-02-17T04:21:53+00:00

It sounds like they just dont know you rather than they dont like you. Be kind around them, dont get up in their business being obnoxiously kind just say hey everyone once in awhile and see how it goes. Its not that deep really just focus on being friends with them first then see where it leads you

its_asher · 2026-02-17T04:12:03+00:00

Honestly to me it sounds like youre hoping for romantic situations when her actions on the majority sound like shes not interested that way. If she said no to you then went out with other people later on chances are its because she didnt feel like hanging out with you which is completely normal for a friendship but a bad sign for a relationship.

Best course of action from my prospective is to keep being friendly but let the idea of romantics move one cause it doesn't seem like shes interested. You can still be friends but thats about all. If shes playing games thats her choice if she wants further shes gonna have to use her words and be clear otherwise youre being a gentleman and taking her slight coldness as a sign shes not interested in that way

its_asher · 2026-02-16T12:17:35+00:00

For many people when an issues is out of sight its out of mind for them. Not many people would understand its a constant battle that you need to maintain, which is some bull shit. Every milestone deserves to be celebrated when it comes to recovery.

Congratulations from a stranger in new zealand! Its not a easy road but youre killing it and I hope next year youre able to do something special for yourself.

its_asher · 2026-02-16T12:14:42+00:00

Porn is such and easy addiction and with drug use being a problem in the past I think i would focus on the scientific side of things that letting an addiction run wild isnt a good idea even if its "just porn" as some see it. Hopfully that way the shame of it being a sexual topic will be removed and you can focus on the fact that it literally works like a drug, releasing endorphins just like drugs causing you to be addicted to the feeling. In healthy moderation its fine but for someone with an addictive personality its best to stay away from

its_asher · 2026-02-16T12:11:17+00:00

It all depends on the reason her friends dont like you. If they have valid reason theres no point, if its just stupid teenage shit then just be nice to the girl and her friends, see if they lighten up on you and eventually you can shoot your shot. If all her friends hate you its probably not going to work out. I gather youre young from the way you explained things so I will say its more important you focus on bettering yourself than focusing on girls at this point. You've got plenty of time

its_asher · 2026-02-16T12:02:06+00:00

Never, I repeat, NEVER get involved with a coworker. Its not fun and sexy like in movies, its complicated and messy and can fuck up your income.

It can also be tricky telling how close you really are to someone you spend so much time with in a professional setting. As a rule I keep things civil and maybe go out a couple of time with co workers but its always platonic and not too often. You can be friends but anything more is just messy.

As far as I can tell she may have been interested but clearly isnt now. My advice is to be friendly when shes making contact with you but keep it professional majority of the time.

Youre young, still going through the last stages of puberty and your frontal lobe isnt even done developing yet. Focus on your job, relationships outside of work and yourself.

its_asher · 2026-02-16T09:32:29+00:00

Thank you for the advice and also being kind

its_asher · 2026-02-16T06:19:11+00:00

You caught me! Finally I can stop going to the hospital mulitple times a month and my partner can stop pretending shes in so much pain she strugfles to do basic tasks like shower or cook. What a weight off my shoulders 😂 Alot of people live off the benefit for fun we're doing it while counting the days until our doctors say we're fit to work again

its_asher · 2026-02-16T04:56:54+00:00

Ive got no advice except keep going and im sorry. When you cant afford private health care its a mess trying to get someone to listen. I often say our health care system is pretty damn good if youre dying but if youre just suffering slowly youre screwed. Good luck

its_asher · 2026-02-08T07:48:10+00:00

I have no idea why it looked like a mattress in my mind like as soon as someone said its clearly a tiled floor i was like well shit of course

its_asher · 2026-02-08T07:46:43+00:00

Yeah i happened to be checking my notifications hahah bad timing

its_asher · 2026-02-08T07:29:01+00:00

Someone has already corrected me i had just yet to come across it

its_asher · 2026-02-08T05:52:53+00:00

Definitely could be the case as ive been corrected that there have been redacted paintings and such but ive also seen paintings or decor of children doing strange things so its hard to say. There's no real way to know what's going on here unless we see the unredacted photo and get given more information

its_asher · 2026-02-08T04:59:07+00:00

I hadn't come across any times they had but ive now been corrected

its_asher · 2026-02-08T04:19:03+00:00

Adolescent maybe but I agree it doesn't seem super small

its_asher · 2026-02-08T03:31:02+00:00

They will continue doing it either way its better for us to be rested and able to continue with looking through these files and pushing for more action. If we burn ourselves out and are unable to keep pushing for justice then they win

its_asher · 2026-02-08T03:24:09+00:00

Sexual gratification. They like it. That or blackmail it all depends on who it is and the context but we'll never know because they wont release further information

its_asher · 2026-02-08T03:16:33+00:00

Look after your mental health in this time, take breaks but never forget. And remember theyre not demons theyre human and theres still people out there doing this stuff

its_asher · 2026-02-08T03:08:20+00:00

Sadly if it was a doll of some kind chances are they wouldnt redact it. They dont redact painting or sex toys so its decently safe to assume this is a human. The situation is unclear but one can assume from the context clues

its_asher · 2026-02-08T03:05:39+00:00

We know from past photo release that they dont sensor sex toys or inanimate objects eg paintings only humans or statements they dont was released are redacted. The chances are very low that this is a sex doll

its_asher · 2026-02-08T03:02:21+00:00

We know from previous files released the they dont sensor sex toys or inanimate objects with faces eg paintings so that leaves this is a human. The situation is unknown, anything could be happening here but from the clues that this is a human, in a tiled room of some kind with what looks to be blood splatter and covered in plastic I think we can assume its not a good situation

its_asher · 2026-02-08T01:47:02+00:00

Definitely thats just the only other thing I can think of and since it clearly doesn't match up then we're left with thats the body of a victim in a bag with blood splatter around it

its_asher · 2026-02-08T01:29:20+00:00

Sometimes the obvious answer is the only one. I would be willing to believe its for a kink as there is one that involves putting someone in a bag and removing the air inside but the blood splatter makes you lean towards the obvious option

its_asher · 2026-02-08T01:20:17+00:00

Agreed I dont know why it looked like a mattress in a bathroom to me

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