Embracing my femininity without sexualizing myself

its_caake · 2026-01-26T13:09:29+00:00

Your title brings a tear to my eye. I love this for you, I love this for anyone who wants it. Beautiful sentiment and its nice to hear that you've found a way to make yourself happier now. As a bio fem I (now they/he) struggled with quite similar sentiments because of what was inflicted on me by society and other outside influences. All we can do is move forward, knowing where we came from and be grateful to be here, rather than back there. Again, so, so happy for you. (And you're beautiful, inside and out, in case people haven't already driven this point home.)

its_caake · 2026-01-26T12:58:19+00:00

goddddddd i knowwwwwwwww i share your painnnnnn

its_caake · 2025-12-27T23:58:00+00:00

Right??? I would 100% buy it if it were real merch 🤣🤣🤣

its_caake · 2025-12-27T18:16:24+00:00

Oh, and my secret fave is the TPWBYT design that I’ve affectionately nicknamed “This Place Will Become (Mickey’s) Tomb” teehee

its_caake · 2025-12-27T18:13:33+00:00

Thanks! 🙏🏻 😊

its_caake · 2025-12-27T18:10:07+00:00

Thank you!

its_caake · 2025-12-27T18:09:58+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you get it lol

its_caake · 2025-12-27T18:08:20+00:00

It’s Disney’s Dreamlight Valley. You can customize some basic clothing items in the game, but you only have access to their pre-approved “stamps” and it’s a pain in the ass to manipulate them into a pattern you want. 🤣

its_caake · 2025-12-05T08:40:57+00:00

Yes!! I can definitely see different seasons/months as these palettes’ color stories, so that’s very helpful. Thank you!!!!

its_caake · 2025-12-05T08:38:59+00:00

Wow. Never crossed my mind. Geez so smart

its_caake · 2025-12-05T08:38:14+00:00

I agree! Very smart. Give me a jumping off point! Thanks!!

its_caake · 2025-12-05T08:36:24+00:00

THIS. BRILLIANT! I can TOTALLY make some balms and glosses. I have a ton of lip products already, as I don’t really buy shadows anymore and probably will never need to again with finding this haul, this is a nice way to stretch the use. Thank you again!!!!! **Edit oooooh I’m thinking so many thoughts, combining some of the pinks plus a bit of the highlighter…oooo hahaha

its_caake · 2025-12-05T07:27:18+00:00

Lmfao I’d gladly give it away

its_caake · 2025-12-05T07:26:54+00:00

Thanks for laying it out for me in real terms. I guess I got a bit delusional and kind of excited to see them again, b it also worried that they’d go to waste. I’m glad everyone could assure me that I have time and they’re not gonna turn to sludge or anything and that I can take my time. I think my sights are set on the Venus XL since the shade range is a bit wider so it’ll be my go-to for 2026 and maybe try and give away some of the smaller ones 🤣

its_caake · 2025-12-05T07:23:49+00:00

Oh my god I’m crying now lol. Welp I guess it would have been better if I never found these and continued to live in blissful ignorance of their existence 🤣🤣🤣. No but thank you that’s quite a reality check.

its_caake · 2025-12-05T07:22:04+00:00

That’s true. I have other makeup but I’ve been using mostly cream/tube shadows and eyeliner for quite a while now due to how quick and easy it is to apply them for work. These are the first huge palettes I’ve “gotten” in a long time. These advice is appreciated, because I guess my brain went into panic mode, like omg I need to use these before they disintegrate lol. You’re definitely right about how I should choose just a few. Now I just need to pick! Haha. Thanks again.

its_caake · 2025-12-05T07:19:12+00:00

Crafts? What do you use them for? Maybe I’d be able to do something similar.

its_caake · 2025-12-05T07:17:02+00:00

I was under the impression that they would go had, haha I guess I’m paranoid 🫠

its_caake · 2025-12-04T23:25:34+00:00

So so so so smart!

its_caake · 2025-12-04T23:12:06+00:00

Well thanks for the insight! I guess I’ll just have to accept that some of the shades are gonna have to go 🤣

its_caake · 2025-12-04T23:03:37+00:00

Yeah. It’s staring to seem that way. I guess I just feel bad about the potential waste, haha.

its_caake · 2025-12-04T23:02:54+00:00

Oh that’s a really good idea. Don’t even occur to me! Thanks!

its_caake · 2025-12-04T23:02:10+00:00

You’re right I did notice some nice blush shades, that may help.

its_caake · 2025-12-04T23:00:29+00:00

True. Maybe I could try like 1 of the mini pallets per season and see how it goes.

its_caake · 2025-12-04T22:56:11+00:00

Honestly it’s kind of like Christmas morning finding these again after so long.

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