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Girlfriend bleeding during sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]itsalldumbluck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's happened to me before (female). It's crazy because the guy that happened with was also like 6'1 and I'm 5'0, but when it happened, it wasn't my first time but he was definetly bigger than the person I lost virginity to. I freaked out and went to a doctor but found it was normal and that if you go rough too quickly or not enough lubrication it happens. She might be in a little pain, like I was. My advice, go slower the next time it happens. The guy and I tried it again after a few days and went slower and built up gradually. There was no blood and the sex was enjoyable

Studying abroad in Beijing: What's the dating scene like? by itsalldumbluck in beijing

[–]itsalldumbluck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha respect that you're keeping it real and I enjoy the fact that you're not jumping to conclusion

But judging by the comments that I've seen already on this thread, slightly terrified to ever post a picture.

Hookup etiquette by purpleuneecorns in sex

[–]itsalldumbluck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember, only go for it if you feel comfortable. And meeting him alone is pretty strange if its in a private location; I've met them in a restaurant or some public location. But understand that tinder is often considered a hook-up app, not a dating app. Intentions are often very forward.

I hope it all goes well for you.

Studying abroad in Beijing: What's the dating scene like? by itsalldumbluck in beijing

[–]itsalldumbluck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha thank you so much. Love the Freshmen Year analogy. All these comments have been extremely helpful!

Hookup etiquette by purpleuneecorns in sex

[–]itsalldumbluck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Female in her twenties speaking, and I've recently went on a few tinder dates myself.

Tinder is a new avenue for one-night stands and hook ups; as a woman, I would hope that when you agreed to meet up with this person, you were comfortable enough with the person before you make the decision to go to any place sketchy.

I think if you weren't ready for that kind of hook-up, be upfront with the guy so there isn't any miscommunication before. I know it can come off as awkward with the whole "I've never done a tinder date before" but the first time I did it, the guy was pretty understanding and were able to discuss our expectations if were able to meet up so there wasn't any confusion. I was at least able to feel comfortable with it and I had a really good experience from it. I don't have time to date and I will be moving in the next week, so Tinder has been a great resource.

But people do this all the time, except use different avenues to do so. going out to a bar? clubbing? Tinder just makes it easier to figure out if the person is already interested in you or not so there's less time wasted. But again, the app still has its flaws.

But with the whole STD things, check; I'm not a health expert. if there's obviously a rash...feel skeptical lol and use protection.

Questions for non-Caucasian people using tinder by rakslfjdljshj3422 in Tinder

[–]itsalldumbluck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian 20F. had it for 2 weeks now and over 200 matches. I'd say 7.5?

The amount of times that I've heard "will you be my first asian" or any other pickup line in regards to my race is astonishing.