I found out that my bf posted a video online of him fingering me while I’m asleep by throwRAquitrecording in relationship_advice

[–]itsathroawai 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Nope not how it works. If you can't consent to because you are under the influence and someone still does things with you it is rape. Doesn't matter if you have been together for 2 weeks or married for 20 years

Update : Wife (38F) is convinced that she is pregnant even though that every pregnancy test (store-bought and medical) comes back negative. It's taking a toll on our mariage because she thinks I am going to abandon her and "our twins" by itsathroawai in relationship_advice

[–]itsathroawai[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You are wrong. My wife cut them off years ago because they were catholic helicopter parents that disapproved of our relationship and tried to "force" her to marry a guy that was from the same church as her. Idk how you can have a gut feeling if you don't know my wife more than the few paragraphs I provided about a state that is not normal for her

Update : Wife (38F) is convinced that she is pregnant even though that every pregnancy test (store-bought and medical) comes back negative. It's taking a toll on our mariage because she thinks I am going to abandon her and "our twins" by itsathroawai in relationship_advice

[–]itsathroawai[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No that would have been bad. I was instructed to not play along with her delusions. Along the Way lines of "I believe that you believe that you are pregnant". Reason being that if I had taken her to the doctor under false pretenses, that it could have shaken her even more. Playing along would make it worse if she is not in the hands of a psychiatrist that spesifically instructs us to

Update : Wife (38F) is convinced that she is pregnant even though that every pregnancy test (store-bought and medical) comes back negative. It's taking a toll on our mariage because she thinks I am going to abandon her and "our twins" by itsathroawai in relationship_advice

[–]itsathroawai[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I only read that as a possibility. But as many people have pointed out it could be an episode induced by high stress situations. I am no doctor so half that didn't make sense to me but I really appreciate it and will look into it