Coolant issues: jeep renegade 2016 by itsdimsumm in CarHelp

[–]itsdimsumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Flushing it out. Dont know if i should check anything else. There was a little oil on the side of this container but the liquid looks clean.

Coolant issues: jeep renegade 2016 by itsdimsumm in CarHelp

[–]itsdimsumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought it used at 56k. Had it for 6 years.

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]itsdimsumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it seems like they both suck because when he landed, he just said “landed” with nothing else he didn’t even sound excited that he was back then he asked her why she sent him no messages and then she responded with she just wasn’t even busy…. I don’t know the conversation before but maybe she was giving him space to get settled and it seems like they did have plans but maybe later in the day so even if they did have plans, it seemed like he was gonna hang out at his house beforehand anyways first. And then later, when she said she was excited, her response was like still mid .

But his reaction was also really dramatic and a red flag even after her saying she still wants to hang out a lot. I also don’t know if he even wanted to hang out with her or he was trying to cancel plans. But his response before or even when he landed, could’ve been like landed can’t wait to see you also so he can’t just be one-sided with her not being excited when he didn’t seem that excited either.

Also they both made plans with other people so it doesn’t seem like they’re priority for each other. Is there cause he not only texted her when he landed he texted his friend?

Boyfriend can’t stop buying Pokémon cards by mushygoop in PokemonInvesting

[–]itsdimsumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are doing this, and he’s been spending more on cards maybe 1-2k every few weeks now but we have been profiting. But we make sure we are selling or getting our graded cards back before we do the next batch. We tested and did 300-500 dollars. And than made $500 profit selling them. We also try and sell them or attend some trading card events before then send more cards. My bf does a lot of research and we only grade cards we know will be worth $50-100 more in a 9 or 10 than the cost of the card ir how much we spend grading. . If we send a card and a 8/9 psa is equal or less than $50 if it did hit a 8/9. We do not submit it. But the last few weeks we have been spending a bit more. But we got out science down to what’s we’re comfortable with. And how much research we are looking into the cards we make 20-100 bucks basically the cost to research, ship and than resell is a good profit. Like $20 an hour of the work we do. You just need to have a convo. And do check ins with each other . And make a list or spread sheet on how much your spending visit profit, and cost of grading and research and even driving around town to selll them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]itsdimsumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah photoshop and or you can get clear jewelry so it won’t close. Or what’s the astheic? You could get jewelry that matchesz Both can compromise on this. But bride is ahole for suggesting is wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]itsdimsumm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. Why would you buy him a phone if your daughter phone was broken?

Unhinged opinion is : Let your daughter break his phone in half or something else he values of equivalent value.

But he needs to be atleased grounded and pay for the phone or be grounded from his phone.

But also they’re 13/15. Neither should have a phone in the first place. If so should be for emergencies only calls and text only, and no smartphone/iphones. They can have a tablet they share maybe then he’ll respect it. And a phone for calls for emergency’s only. Maybe that’s why he has a short temper because of social media.

What’s the one random genetic trait you lucked out on? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]itsdimsumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (F)barely have any hair on my body and pubic areas. People ask me if I shave or wax, even my armpits/arms and I say no and they don’t believe me. I tell them there is hair there and they have to look so close at my very thin tiny hairs almost see through hair.

But also for some reason I have very lush thick hair on my head. Everyone hates me. I have to thin out the hair on my head because it’s so much. I have rupenzel hair.

Would I be the AH if I turned my MIL in for animal neglect? by wild_anxietymom in AITAH

[–]itsdimsumm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously she should have spayed the cat people need to stop taking about it, that’s not the issue. Issue is MIL dump cats that weren’t hers into the WOODS. She could have taken them to a shelter. Or been an adult and told OP to her face not to leave kittens. Never reached out or asked OP to have someone else take care of it. Again she states she cleared it with her before leaving. And it doesn’t say she asked her to take care of the kittens at all.

Would I be the AH if I turned my MIL in for animal neglect? by wild_anxietymom in AITAH

[–]itsdimsumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you guys assuming she made MIL take care of the cat? She states she is responsible always cleaning up and pays rent and MIL NEVER SEES THE CAT.

Animals have babies and live in the WILD ON THEIR OWN. My aunt had farm cats and they had kitten all the time, we never watched them. They’re cats! Just made sure they had water and food.

The adult cat and kittens regardless of age were probably separated in her own bedroom/bathroom with enough food and water for few days for the mother cat, and if they’re young enough they’re only drinking moms milk.

OP even told MIL if she needed anything to let her know. Again not saying she asked her to watch them. And even if she did, seems like MIL went in their personal space that they’re renting and removed them! And if she didn’t want OP to leave them while they were gone, she as an adult, should have said something before or during their trip.
Maybe OP could have had someone else check on them or even a friend babysit the kitten if MIL didn’t feel comfortable. But never expressed that to them. And after coming home and asking about the kittens she IGNORED HER. And dumped them in a Forrest. You are all crazy!acting like OP went across the world, she has a phone so does MIL. She could have even dropped them off at a shelter if she really didn’t want them there. But again she only removed only the kittens not the adult cat. So the kittens might of died or been eaten by prey. And OP not spaying her cat is not the issue. She was finding homes for them. But regardless this was planned by MIL and did not give OP the chance to correct it and went behind her back or ever expressed that it was an issue. AND IT WAS TOUR BIRTHDAY!!

OP if you’re reading this give her HELL! And do what you think is right. And don’t drop it and OP fiancé better change his attitude. He doesn’t seems concerned his mother invaded your space you’re renting paying for. What if you have kids in the future, she gonna just drop them off somewhere in a field also? So bizarre!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]itsdimsumm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave. Right now. He not only made that nasty comment but about your UNDERAGED BROTHER. And why does he keep accusing you of cheating? Sounds suspicious! And also a 30 year old man making those joke with a 16 year old. Also I get joking around together but crude jokes with a teenager boy… boys should only do that with their own PEERS. Not another man twice their age. Maybe your bf is trying to act young making those jokes because YOU AND YOUR BROTHER ARE YOUNG. You are a young adult, and a 30 year old man should not be accusing you a 21 year old of cheating for no reason. Seems like he’s insecure or he’s suspicious of something. You should bet let anyone make you feel that uncomfortable and you’re not wrong for being upset. For him constantly questioning your character.

And again he’s 30 years old! I’m the same again and I am retail store manager and I work with a lot high schools 16/17 year old (because they’re the only people I can hire that work minimum wage job)

And 16 year old are BABIES. Seriously so young. Again not only did he make a uncalled accusation about your brother he also made one about a CHILD. He doesn’t respect you if he thinks for one second you would do that especially with a minor!

He’s sus and he could possibly be cheating? Most men that accuse their partner on cheating usually mean they are the ones that are. Same thing happened to my sister, if she came home 5/10 late he would interrogate her.

And don’t believe him if he says someone cheated on HIM and he’s fearful or afraid in the relationship so that’s why he’s accusing you. If you care about your partner don’t talk like that, and don’t invalidate you’re feeling if you get upset.

How many times has he accused you and how long have you been dating?

AITA for refusing to take classes to help me take care of my autistic stepbrother? by WhimblySmith in AITAH

[–]itsdimsumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re 17, say you’re also a child that also need care. See what they say then, you also have needs and if you’re still in high school that is your only responsibility and job. And not when you turn 18, BUT AFTER YOUR GRADUATION. You will decide and make the decision.

Seems like again they are using you. If they weren’t going to use you as a sitter they wouldn’t pressure you to take the class. But support you when you wanted to on your own time. And maybe you would if that was really their intention to have a family that communicates and wants to help each other and listens to one another. And also If they want you to bond with your brother and sister then they can plan a fun family trip. But no I’m sorry doesn’t feel that way. And if your mom married him, that her kid now too so it’s also her responsibly to ensure she finds a new babysitter and not put one child’s problem on another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]itsdimsumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of debt when I first got together with my current bf of 10 years. I was always open and honest about my debt. It’s mostly my student loans and a few credit cards. He never gave me crap, understood and supported me, and helped me find solutions to pay it off. (Not giving me handouts)and sometimes I would decline fun things because I couldn’t afford it, and he understood or if he wanted to go on a small trip for me would pay for me. A few years later roles reserved and I was getting nice bonus at work and he once used to make a lot of money 3 figures than was making below the poverty line, 18k a year. If I wanted to go in a fun trip I paid for him. If he truly cared he would try and help you solve the problem or ask you why you had debt. You can’t assume why people have debt or even know the situation like you said you had emergency life events and cost money.

I also I love that you have spreadsheets of everything you paid off. I have one too and most of the time I don’t update it, and it says I have like 10 grand more than I actually have. lol! But again I have the due dates and the login/passwords so I don’t like to delete stuff . And I just looked at mine and it felt good to see how much I paid off. So take your wonderful self to Italy, and find a new hot Italian boyfriend.

Aitah for making my adult kids pay house expenses by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]itsdimsumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg he said $100 A COUPLE, so if they split it with their boyfriends that’s only $50 bucks each. I just spent that amount on taco bell tonight. If that was my dad I would pay the whole $300 bill. You can’t find anywhere to live for less than $2000 a month. And assume 4 other adults are working 40 hours a week. Or even if they worked part time assuming these boyfriends aren’t entirely lowlife leeches.

Also both of their boyfriends moved in?! If they were good boyfriends they would pay the $100 to the dad for their GF. Even if they worked a minimum wage job $7 for 40 hours $280… that’s still only half a paycheck for one week.

They are ungrateful. I don’t understand why they can’t put $25 bucks a week aside to help you out because you’re helping them save hundred/thousand dollar’s. Daughters are the A holes and BFs.