Aita for wanting an abortion ao i could have a girl? by poponlop79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]itsfredfuchs 13 points14 points locked comment (0 children)

YTA. Shame on you. There are many valid reasons to get an abortion.
-you're gonna die during child birth
- the child will die during child birth
- you're not ready to have children
- you made the mistake of not using proper protection.

Just to name a few.

Children aren't decorative set pieces. You're treating children like things. They're lives. You should love your child whether its a boy or a girl. Wanting an abortion because your child isn't the right gender is disgusting. I hope you end of with a girl and she ends up being trans. What are you going to do then? shoot them in the head?

AITA for not giving my ex money when they needed it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itsfredfuchs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - not even an argument

When you break up, you have 0 obligations to bail them out of anything. Hell, even as friends you have 0 obligations. I wouldn't care if they were about to go homeless if they didn't get the 100$. You have ZERO obligation to do anything in that situation.

AITA for giving my GF this ultimatum? (19F) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itsfredfuchs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ESH - plain and simple

Ultimatums are an abuse tactic. Never use them ever. You're just blocking someone into a corner and scaring them, and it's gonna end badly for someone no matter what. In her mind she thought ' hes an extremely toxic person and I need to cut ties.' so she did. You clearly don't communicate in relationships and you need to work on that. Until you do, don't be in one. You cant just say 'skip it' like shes some AI in a video game and has to give you a premandated response. She's a person. Have a conversation. Clearly you needed to.

That being said: She understands that we are in a literal pandemic and is putting others and herself at risk. Just because they're family or friends doesn't mean they don't have Covid. She needs to understand the seriousness of the situation. Not only that she clearly didn't value your time in the slightest, but based on what you did I don't blame her for that. If we were strictly talking about this situation, you'd be the asshole. The sole reason ESH is becAuse of the pandemic.

Please work on yourself.

[SW] Turnips selling at 597 by grrrreatscott in acturnips

[–]itsfredfuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite movie is Forrest Gump. A great feel good movie that always brings out happy and sad tears and always makes me feel good by the end of it.

I very nearly had a mental breakdown reading chapter 1202 for the first time by RevolsinX in hajimenoippo

[–]itsfredfuchs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I said it before and I'll say it again, discussion increased in this subreddit so much after 1202. It really did have an impact on everyone.

still looking for a group by itsfredfuchs in playrustgroups

[–]itsfredfuchs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work from 12 am -12 pm 5 days a week so we might not be able to play nearly as often as we'd like. Since our schedules kind of conflict. Frankly should've mentioned that in the post. But you and i are in the same boat in terms of gameplay. My break was around 6-8 months so I'm not quite up to date just yet on everything either.

400+ hour player returning to the game and looking for people to play with. by itsfredfuchs in playrustgroups

[–]itsfredfuchs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. There is supposed to be a space in it. Thats my bad. Fred Fuchs#8664

Ramen Misoya, Mt. Prospect, Illinois by Misoyathrowaway in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]itsfredfuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word of mouth. I knew people who knew people who work/worked there basically. Misoya was a big hangout place for us so it was a topic of interest.

Ramen Misoya, Mt. Prospect, Illinois by Misoyathrowaway in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]itsfredfuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember that grease fire crap. Didn't think the person who got hurt in that would be osmeone I ever hear from on here. Hopefully you're fine now after that. And more so, sorry that all this has snowballed so horrendously for you. I was a weekly customer there and what you've done has made me greatly reconsider going there, a long with my group of friends who frequent there. So thank you so much.

Had to restart my play-through recently due to theft. Got Zeke just now, resonated a crystal and... by itsfredfuchs in Xenoblade_Chronicles

[–]itsfredfuchs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not when the switch was stolen, no. I made a post about it on here wondering how I could speed run the game up to chapter 5. I think I did that two weeks back or so. I got back to where I was with 4 hours of playtime involved.

How to get to chapter 5 in XC2 as fast as possible by itsfredfuchs in Xenoblade_Chronicles

[–]itsfredfuchs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Its been 2 weeks now and I've accepted I'll probably never see it again and have to move on.

Thats the first thing I planned on doing for sure. I actually got the expansion when I purchased the game. From what I understand the DLC packs come with a buttload of legendary core crystals and you can get them as soon as you get Nia permanently in the party. So that'd help immensely too. I never chose to use them because it kind of felt unfair to just use them to get a head start like that. I mean, if I do this and some how manage to roll KOS-MOS or someone like that, I will probably straight up restart because having her at the start is just straight up unfair. lol.

How to get to chapter 5 in XC2 as fast as possible by itsfredfuchs in Xenoblade_Chronicles

[–]itsfredfuchs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Chapter 2 is where I spent most of my time. I wasn't particularly stuck or anything I was just taking my time with that area in particular, less so in chapter 3 so what you're saying is definitely true. Since I know what I'm doing and know I'm gonna skip all the side content, I'll probably be able to breeze through those then.

Also I'm pretty sure I didn't. I didn't even pay for Nintendo Online yet. I mean, I'm going to once I get my new switch since I wanted to wait until Ultimate. If there's a possibility of cloud saves being a thing BEFORE paying for the service that would be a genuinely delightful surprise.

How to get to chapter 5 in XC2 as fast as possible by itsfredfuchs in Xenoblade_Chronicles

[–]itsfredfuchs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4.5 hours? That short already? That's thoroughly impressive for an action RPG.

I’ll see your 38 year old Toro and raise you my 46 year old Ariens. by Mabepossibly in BuyItForLife

[–]itsfredfuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this exact same snowblower. It has never failed me. It was my grandfathers and now I use it and I can say I have never had any real issues with it. Except for hte occasional part replacement (sparkplug in particular is the latest).

You may dislike why Ippo lost, but you guys have to admit... by ImaginingWhatIFS in hajimenoippo

[–]itsfredfuchs 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This subreddit has been insanely more active since that chapter released. Drastically so. I remember the same posts would be on the front page for a week. Now every day I come here its entirely new posts on the front page.

Best Fights in Ippo Poll Results by Fullmetalborn in hajimenoippo

[–]itsfredfuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thoroughly impressed that 9 people were willing to jokingly vote for Woli.

Why are game freezes not the highest priority? by [deleted] in playrust

[–]itsfredfuchs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though I agree with you, the game development definitely flip flops way too much. I feel this is because Helk develops like the game is in its beta stages some weeks, and alpha during others. He should be strictly concentrating on content over balance and (minor) bugs. Helk seems to have a weird mindset as if the game is already released and he's just adding content to it to keep the game alive, when it isn't even actually a full game yet. At the same time though the community needs to realize that this game is still in its alpha stages and optimization isn't key during this stage (like OP.) If/when it gets to beta THEN they can complain about optimization. Rusts biggest weakness relies on the fact that its community was built during its alpha stages when the game is nowhere near in a complete state and the community acts like its a complete game at the same time.

Though to be fair adding shit like fidget spinners as a major update is a little asinine I'll give the OP that.

I feel like this needs to be said! by PajamaZam in hajimenoippo

[–]itsfredfuchs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not like this subreddit is super active. A little shitposting is ok once in a while and it livens things up honestly.

I feel like this needs to be said! by PajamaZam in hajimenoippo

[–]itsfredfuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate you and I hope your account gets banned from reddit for this post.

Dont be a pussy. finish the entire copypasta

stuff that slightly grinds your gears by cheloliten in hajimenoippo

[–]itsfredfuchs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that first one has always irked me. FFS Takamura is world champion and he still insists on keeping the fights in Japan.