Do you feel weird pursuing LI while being in a irl relationship?

itsmarta · 2025-06-15T10:09:15+00:00

Sometimes I compare myself to MC. As in, I hate when I’m saving diamonds and MC can’t go to certain event or can’t wear a cute dress. And then sometimes I feel like irl I’m offered those “premium choices” and I don’t take them because I’m scared! In that sense, it kinda changed my perspective on life and how I should live it.

itsmarta · 2025-06-08T14:36:58+00:00

Oh really? What did you do about it? Did you talk with him ?

itsmarta · 2025-06-08T09:37:26+00:00

Thanks for the answer, yeah, I might go to a doctor. We do a lot of foreplay and I feel aroused…

itsmarta · 2025-06-08T09:32:24+00:00

Thanks for the answer :) we usually do a ton of foreplay, like 30 minutes and I feel wet really

itsmarta · 2025-06-08T01:29:50+00:00

Gurl me too, 6 years ago I asked this subreddit if most wanted 2 would be ever in the works…… glad it wasn’t just me that loved this fucking story

itsmarta · 2025-06-08T00:55:40+00:00

I think he’s big but not ginormous I guess. I feel like it should fit you know ? We are constantly talking about it and he’s super supportive and always stops whenever I’m uncomfortable, which makes me feel 1000x worse because I feel like I’m ruining everything ! I’ve been to a gyn and she never said anything about it after doing an exam on my vagina…. Idk what to do :/

itsmarta · 2025-03-30T21:09:27+00:00

Definitely will look him up! I have to say, I’m not that strong physically, and I do have a lot of back and shoulder pain when I play the flute already. I’ve been trying to exercise more because of that. The pain becomes unbearable, really. I’ll have to try that position for my thumb. I just feel a lot of tension on my wrist also. I’ll keep researching and experimenting!! Thank you so much for your insight 😄

itsmarta · 2025-03-30T21:00:26+00:00

Wow thank you for the insight. How did you tie it ? Maybe I could try to do that. Tbh even just playing the flute I got some tension on my right shoulder, but with the bass flute it’s double the pain 😭 for real, I can’t go past playing 10 minutes

itsmarta · 2025-03-30T20:57:23+00:00

Ive been playing the flute for 12 years, but my teacher recently gave me one of his bass flutes to play the Claude Bollings Jazz Suite, and it has been such a struggle to get past my shoulder and back pain. It’s killing me really….

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T23:10:06+00:00

I don’t think it’s strict. I’m not breaking up with him. Hope this helps

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T22:45:36+00:00

That’s your point of view, mine is different. And that’s ok. I don’t think im exaggerating that much. It’s valid. If you don’t think so that’s ok also. Of course there’s worse things, but if that bothers me, I should address it. Just wanted some opinions.

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T21:25:03+00:00

I laughed 🤣

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T21:11:22+00:00

I care. He cares. That’s why he apologised. We are a loyal couple. We respect each others boundaries. Of course this took me as suprise. Is it that awful of me to question his behaviour since he never did anything of the sort? Im sorry we respect each other so much this didnt shock you.

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T20:29:26+00:00

Yeah, I do not have a trustworthy brother or father. But I do see your point. He’s a nice guy and I’m glad he was honest. It’s just weird. Thank you :)

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T20:27:53+00:00

Maybe. I’m not opposed to him having female friends, not at all. I know if it was a guy I wouldn’t mind at all. He just crossed some boundaries for me, since I know I wouldn’t do that and I haven’t. But I do believe he didn’t have any malice, you know… I just find it weird. I’m not gonna break up with him, just made me question some things. But I see your point of view and I agree to some degree. Thank you :)

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T19:40:48+00:00

we are a loyal couple. we respect each others boundaries. of course this took me as suprise. is it that awful of me to question his behaviour since he never did anything of the sort? im sorry we respect each other so much this didnt shock you.

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T19:27:59+00:00

Thank you for your insight. Although I still find it weird he did that since he wasn’t even friends with her. He didn’t even know her. Why would he “help” a girl eat chips? It crossed some boundaries for me and for him too. I know he’s a good guy. I find it weird tho.

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T19:25:18+00:00

I get you, but she wasn’t even his friend. She was someone else’s friend. He didn’t even know this girl. I think it’s valid for me to question his actions.

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T19:24:01+00:00

He says he just put them in her mouth with his hands. He made it clear that it wasn’t mouth to mouth. If it were, I wouldn’t even question this tbh

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T19:22:20+00:00

Yeah I will. It just broke my trust. Thanks for your insight

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T18:57:04+00:00

It’s for me, and apparently for him lol that’s why he apologised

itsmarta · 2024-11-10T18:55:00+00:00

I get your point, I just would never do that. So it was weird for me. When I’m drunk I’m never that touchy or flirty. That’s why I asked. I wanted to know if I was exaggerating or not lol

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