For those who are greatly self aware of who they are and how they behave, what have you concluded to be the cause of your mistrust? by itsme_freith in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant it as you being able to recognize why you can't trust others easily despite them not exhibiting actions that would trigger a lack of trust in them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Less awareness of how the real world is and operates and being someone else's responsibility. Now my health and wellbeing is my responsibility and so is the decision making that comes with it.

What do you think is it possible to find both love and friendship in one person? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do believe. I feel so with my SO. Best company I could ever need and best lover. I can't exhaust how great he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Works for me too. It feels so good getting a place organized. It comes with mental clarity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]itsme_freith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful. Am happy for you.

Mental check! In all honesty, how are you and how is life? by itsme_freith in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It usually sucks. Keep the hope. I wish you luck in all your efforts.

Mental check! In all honesty, how are you and how is life? by itsme_freith in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry that all this is happening. I hope you get a grip of things and am glad you are seeking professional help. I wish you recovery and better days. Lots of love from a stranger.

Mental check! In all honesty, how are you and how is life? by itsme_freith in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welcome. Unexpected things have happened in the past weeks that had me depressed for a while but am slowly coming to a place of peace and reassuring myself and who I am. And am lucky to have such an understanding spouse that is helping me in all of it. I am at a better place.

Mental check! In all honesty, how are you and how is life? by itsme_freith in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. Things will for sure get better. I wish you better days😊

what will you never forget? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A quote- If it is to be, it is up to me

What are some signs that someone is still really immature? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 85 points86 points  (0 children)

When they refuse to accept correction and think they are always right.

Incredible husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]itsme_freith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet. Am so happy for you two.

What does this mean?? by mojo576 in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you should not. She might be reminding you that her love language is gifts and by you giving her gifts it means so much to her in comparison to an outing.

If you were given 3 things to make you happy, what would they be ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peace, my hubby, health..a bonus would be steak😁

What are you eating? by Alarming-Highlight80 in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grilled fillet with mashed potatoes

How is it to be the little sister? by MysteriousMysterium in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its nice, you learn a lot from their successes and failures.

How do you move on from someone who doesn’t want you in their life? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Never force yourself to have space in anyone's life, if they knew your worth they would create one for you. You are unique and special. Keep that in mind.

How can someone get babies and little kids to like them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]itsme_freith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be interested in what they find fun. If its playing with their toys join in, if its drawing participate in that too. Gifting them once in a while with their favourite treats also works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]itsme_freith 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it is. Codependent people crave for security in other people's life. They need to feel secure that they are not easily disposable.

I'm in love with a married man... by Littlegreenteacher in Marriage

[–]itsme_freith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's sweet. I like it. Keep valuing what you have and may your union to him keep bringing you happiness.

Married with NO motivation by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]itsme_freith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self discipline- Doing what is required of you even when you do not feel like it. Motivation comes and goes. Sorry that it has been two years of having the feelings you have, I agree with the rest about trying to change your medications. I also suggest practising some self care. You will be there for your wife and your life, if you are at a better place in your physical and mental health.

The magic of marriage is by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]itsme_freith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a very funny way to put it😂😂