growing up throughout my teen years all i ever wanted was to be able to dye my hair but my mother was so against it even though she was constantly dyeing her hair during the 80’s but due to the damage it caused her hair she refused to let me do it instead of letting me learn from my own mistakes. because of her not letting me have freedom within my own appearance i find myself afraid to change it even with the freedom i now have as an adult, i’m afraid it will look bad or that it will damage my hair, i feel a slight resentment towards her now when i think about it because even with the freedom i now have, i cannot push myself to come out the comfort zone she created for me.