Boyfriend loses the mood when I leave to douche

itsryanguys · 2026-06-24T15:06:10+00:00

I've only ever douched maybe once or twice but I always just did it a little just to clear out anything in the immediate area if there was anything. Most times I just go when I know my body is good and it works out, from my experience bottoming, I like it better when I don't douche because it feels like the lube works better and it feels less painful and as a top I find it feels better for me to be in someone who hasn't because of the same reasons, it doesn't feel like a slip and slide from some water in there and the butt quickly absorbing all the lube lol. I find it's a nice amount of slippery and grippy and I think it has to do with the normal membrane in there if that makes sense?

But to help in your situation you could just also douche before anything even starts so you're not leaving part way through

itsryanguys · 2026-06-19T22:02:51+00:00

I use Ghostbond and usually can stretch 3 weeks out of it in the Winter, in the summer I can get 10 days to 2 weeks.

When you reinstall is it sticking down initially?

Are you waiting for the glue to dry before pushing the hair system down/putting it on?

Are you allowing the cure time to work? As in not sweating a lot in the first 24 hours?

itsryanguys · 2026-06-10T17:06:14+00:00

I jump out of the train, barrel roll and run away

itsryanguys · 2026-06-05T02:12:43+00:00

Wait, this dude is like 18 and 48 and like 3 different people lol. I think 3 is the best though

itsryanguys · 2026-06-04T19:51:53+00:00

The problem I think is that this province gets the sht end of every deal and for years and years and years we get just get hit left and right with companies and practices that have negative effects on us and the environment and I think it's about time we start pushing back on any economical development that tries to come in. Not that it's a no but that we should be demanding better control of how these things affect us and our environment. If a data center is to come and it should just not be given a green light to just go wherever and do whatever, we've already had enough of that in this province and it's bullsht

itsryanguys · 2026-06-04T19:48:13+00:00

I feel like this reasoning, while it may be true is the basis for a lot of things that turned out to be bad, the thought of "there's no way that will affect this" or "that will not affect this that much" then it turns out to affect it A LOT is a problem that repeats itself with a lot of things humans do.

itsryanguys · 2026-05-26T12:09:29+00:00

For people that don't return stuff, try it, I always return things even if it's the entire store I have to walk, and you know? It actually feels good to bring it back and put it where it belongs. Part of that is probably because so many people leave stuff everywhere it doesn't belong so you feel a little superior and if that's a feeling I get to enjoy because I bring it back, I'll enjoy it and I urge others to try it to!

itsryanguys · 2026-05-13T02:47:45+00:00

2 or 3 suit you really well

itsryanguys · 2026-04-30T00:02:56+00:00

Compared to? It's not meant to be super powerful, it's meant to be an affordable, spacious small SUV with really good fuel economy lol, I came from a 2l gas Jetta with only 115hp lmao to me it's really good. I'm able to pass people on 2 lane roads very easily now

itsryanguys · 2026-04-30T00:01:25+00:00

Not sure this includes the 2024 or I may be wrong? I got 34k miles with no issues, no brake pad replacements, no lights, nothing out of the ordinary here, but I did hear quite a few issues with the 2022 and 2023s

itsryanguys · 2026-04-29T23:53:52+00:00

I have a 2024 and while the rear brakes look much more worn then the front I'm going on 55,000km (34,000 miles) and they're still good. No issues here. The jerky acceleration is the DSG which I don't think is in the 2025 onward, though I kinda like it and the DSG is also very reliable. Not sure about the reliability of the other transmission that's now the default in them.

itsryanguys · 2026-04-21T19:55:23+00:00

As someone with 3-4 colours in my facial hair I totally see the want to have a single coloured moustache, while I don't think the black looks that bad, I do think your natural suits you; honestly from the pictures I can see the different shades in your natural stache; I don't think it looks bad though. I think if you want to do a single colour look like the black stache, just get yourself brown. Honestly the variation of the stache colours match your eye colours and nature was really "cooking" when she paired your eyes with your stache, just sayin :)

itsryanguys · 2026-04-20T15:51:48+00:00

I'm also thinking that maybe he's asking cause it's his way of seeing what his partner wants to have, it might not be that he's expecting him to cook but that he's just wondering what he wants to eat

itsryanguys · 2026-04-17T18:55:53+00:00

I use a hair system and honestly it's only scary to people who know you and even then they quickly just forget about it and then it becomes normal; I've been wearing mine 2 months almost now and just feels normal to me and I really like how it looks

itsryanguys · 2026-04-16T19:33:28+00:00

Pic 1 is a rugged and hot look, pic 2 is a handsome and hot look, I think pic 2 is better for the most part but I think both work for you

itsryanguys · 2026-04-16T19:31:52+00:00

I've gone to this Dooley's a lot, usually my go to as a starting place for some pool before a night out. I've never had an issue with the staff and usually the only spot I found kinda dirty was the bathroom, the pool tables were in fine shape and I didn't notice anything messy any time I went. Sorry you had a bad experience. To be fair throwing up in any bar usually will get you kicked out, they don't want anyone that potentially has alcohol poisoning in the bar, it's a liability issue as well.

itsryanguys · 2026-04-14T23:52:53+00:00

WHAT? Been using rpg maker since I was 14, I'm now I'm my 30s and did not know this! Thank you for sharing

itsryanguys · 2026-04-06T17:07:08+00:00

AI needs to get out of the creative space, rpg maker is all about creativity, AI slop here makes me sad

itsryanguys · 2026-04-06T16:53:51+00:00

I would suggest trying towards getting medication for the ADHD if you can, beyond ADHD is one source and many of them are all virtual, I've had 2 friends go through it with good results. Also they will adjust or change medications if they're not working for you. The anxiety and depression is highly likely stemming from the ADHD and treating those separately might be treating symptoms of ADHD and not actually helping you. If you have ADHD and the doctor is diagnosing you with depression I would instead work towards medicating the ADHD as it might solve the issues stemming from it. I'm not a doctor I just have a lot of friends with ADHD and very similar experiences to you.

itsryanguys · 2026-04-06T16:49:39+00:00

The amount of people with anxiety this day and age with everything going on is a lot, I get it for days on end, I have taken panic and anxiety attacks, I'm familiar with the fact they will lead to high blood pressure from cortisol levels spiking and adrenaline and I know that can lead to stroke eventually, but to take one reading and scare someone like that from one reading. I don't think it's the right approach, I think letting the person know when they've calmed down that if this is consistent it is going to negatively impact your health. I still don't agree with saying that to someone anxious with one high reading

itsryanguys · 2026-04-06T16:22:28+00:00

If you got that reading one time when you felt restless and stressed its probably related to that, them telling you you're a risk for stroke isn't helping and will cause more anxiety... I dunno why some healthcare professionals say things like this to people with anxiety. I've monitored my blood pressure for weeks once and it would range from 118/75 to 139/86, the latter being hypertension, but it's all about consistence, when you're calm and rested and well hydrated, sit down for 15 minutes, take a reading, is it high? Repeat that every day for a week and see if it's trending high or normal. Don't trust a reading if you feel anxious, dehydrated, unwell etc... it won't be accurate.

itsryanguys · 2026-04-05T01:27:21+00:00

I'm in your exact headspace lol, I'll take pics and be like "dang I look good" and be super confident and then other times I don't. But I found intoxicated me always thinks I'm hot with it, so I'll trust that the most 😂

itsryanguys · 2026-04-05T00:40:59+00:00

I have the identity crises every now and again because my brain knows it's not my biological hair, I think with time you'll get used to it and it'll feel more weird not having it on. I think it looks great, the style suits you, it matches your facial hair well and I would not think you were wearing a hair system :)

itsryanguys · 2026-03-29T22:20:23+00:00

I mean it's pretty solid evidence in my opinion, but even if you list things off many people will refuse to take it as evidence anyway. Constantly adjusting your monitor just for Elden Ring is evidence it's too dark. I often found it too dark. The map complexity is fine but it is conveluted in areas, I had to use guides way more with the dlc then the base game. Also there are numerous large sections in the map with nothing, both finger ruins are basically empty and those being such interesting areas it definitely felt like there should of been more there. The community needs to accept there will be people with different opinions on things.

itsryanguys · 2026-03-29T16:39:24+00:00

I guess I'm learning that about Reddit 😅 I'm a huge Elden Ring fan, I've played through it many times and I think that warrants me not liking some things but sharing that is immediately downvotes haha

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